I`ll keep this short guys

HB 9 is a friend of a friend that I met few months back, hit it off but found out she had a bf so I never bothered getting her number

3 months later she adds me on facebook and gives me her number in a private msg (still never asked for it)

My text game has been pretty solid with her, so much so she tells me she wants to fuck and is sending me naked pics ALL the time despite the fact she has a bf (i personally don`t care anymore)

Problem is she lives out of town, so she`s only in the city once a month or so.

She`s in town this week and she`s going to the same concert I am tomorrow night (her BF will be there too but I really doubt it`ll be a problem)

My question is what should I do tomorrow? Should I text her beforehand? How should I act when we meet at the concert? Ignore her?

I haven't really talked to her this week much to keep it a bit brief/distant

Advice is needed ASAP, concert is tomorrow night and I only wanna bang this girl while she's still here

Thanks brothas

Look at Gambler's stealth seduction, when you see her at the concert - say "Hey, HOW have you been?" to deal with the bf - the bf thought you were some random stranger he would get protective, but if you greet her like an old friend he will let you talk to her fine.

Gauge how receptive she will be to you by kino'ing on the shoulder in front of her bf, if she's cool with it and he doesn't seem too protective, then you can move onto more interesting methods :p if shes wearing a dress at the concert and her bf is standing on the other side of her, you can "grab" through the dress and pinch one side of her underwear, you can beginning tugging on it gently (make sure you're not looking at her, just pretend like you're watching the concert), she will feel this and the bf will be none the wiser. It will turn her on more as its a secret you two are keeping.

I wouldn't text her beforehand, but I would not ignore her while there. I'd say, be sure to give her a warm welcome, kiss on the cheek, then crack a few jokes, but then eventually leave her and come back to her later.

When you meet her say "Tell your boyfriend I'm your gayfriend". That'll diffuse the boyfriend completely.

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She might completely give you the cold shoulder in front of her bf not wanting to risk him finding out. Be careful with this one. Dont text her before, dont ignore her there, and i'd probably bring a girl of you're own so you dont act as a third wheel at any point while building value and also helping diffuse the boyfriend

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Ignore her while she is telling you in plain text that she wants to fuck? Dude, it's like refusing to take money on your payday... sad

You don't have to jump on her, but at least be friendly.

You don't have to use game in front of her BF. If she sent naked pics I suppose she means business and isn't just messing around with your self esteem. IMO she just wants to find someone (who is not living near her, cause maybe everyone knows each other at place where she lives) to fuck just for variety behind her BF's back, like you said "once a month or so". And if it's not gonna be you it will be someone else...

Looks like a legit cheater. Clever cheaters don't shit where they live

I would have tried to meet her somewhere when her BF is not around, kinda for a coffee/lunch or such "non-romantical" time of day, to avoid some legit assumptions by her BF And there should be an Isolation possibility for a case if things get "hot", maybe a car or a hotel.

Text game is good for newbies so they have time to think about reply, I'd personally prefer to call (when BF is not around her) and use my voice to make her more interested.


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Thanks for all the advice everyone. Ill give you all the update

So I never texted her before the concert, and we didn't end up meeting up (over 20 thousand ppl at this show, it was chaotic)

I ended up closing a HB 8 that night so I'm not bummed at all ahah

The next day I was going to the exact same show, 2 day event and a buddy of mine got sick so we had an extra ticket so I tossed her a shout inviting her out but she couldn't make it since she already had plans

I didn't reply, and today she texted me asking me how my weekend was

Haven't replied yet, she's now back in her city so she won't be back for a few weeks

Should I make her wait a bit? Freeze her out? We didn't meet at all the week she was here even though she said she was gonna try and sneak away for an hour or 2

Another update

So I replied back to her msg, kept it light and playful and just chatted for a bit.

This girl goes hot and cold sometimes during convos tho, one minute she's all into it and sends a pic then other times when I'll initiate a more sexual conversation she'll kinda go quiet and not really reciprocate.

Then the next minute she's all over it again, so I take this as her trying to control the conversation and have it go by her terms, no thanks.

She sent me another pic of her last night (nothing crazy just a random selfie of her face) and I never msged her after. (She knows I saw the pic since it tells her)

I wake up to her texting me " You open my pictures so I know you're on your phone, but you don't msg me. What is this"

Haven't replied to this, don't know if I want too. I'm taking control over everything again as it's gonna be on my terms.

Don't want this girl thinking I'll be her "text" boyfriend, especially if there's nothing in it for me

Continue to freeze? Or msg her later/tomorrow something and not even bring attention to her last msg

All advice is appreciated my dudes, I want to bang this chick don't get me wrong but I'm not gonna be her lapdog to get it. A lot of other fish in the sea

Reply but in a way that steers the conversation away from the awkward "what is this", start a conversation about something else almost as if it hasn't happened. If she gets all bitchy just tell her what you told us, you're not going to just be someone who she texts randomly to get off on the thrill, (obviously word it better- maybe set a date that she should come down or that you'll be in her city - would be much easier to hook up in her city as she has less excuses to make to her bf etc about where she's going and the length of time shes going), either she'll take it or leave it. If she leaves it you know she was only in it for the excitement of going behind her bf's back texting but for nothing else, if she takes it, game on.

Hope this helps.

Jake

So...you aren't tryin to date this girl right? Its a potential no-strings-attached thing right?

Why not just go along with her BS texting? You don't exactly have to think too much about it and you have nothing to lose. Just keep mindlessly catering to her texts and hit it up when she's in town.

You got others on the side that are much more accessible anyways. If she gets strange and needy-sounding, cut her off. As soon as you feel like effort is made, give her the stiff arm. She'll probably come chasing anyways.

You might have to run a couple of routines on her boyfriend. I can't remember which website it was but there was a very good flowchart with ways on how to befriend the amog/bf and to sleep with girl.

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DUDE WTF

she is 100% ready to have sex with you.
stop analyzing shit. stop thinking tactics and what to text her

HANG OUT WITH HER ASAP AND FUCK HER
just invite her to come and visit you.
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Im in a similar situation dude, HB 9 has a boyfriend, lives away from me but sends me pics, its all good an well, and im pretty confident ive set it up so next time we are in the same town, something will go down... only trouble is, like you said, sometimes she's all into and telling me all this naughty stuff and sending pics and the next minute shes not? like acting if I'm just a friend and even cold at times? is it like she occasionally "remembers" that she's got a Boyfriend and stuff like that?

anyone have a good explaination for this ? and how to deal with it ????


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