So me and a girl who I am casually sleeping with have begun to experiment sexually. It's my birthday in one and a half months time and we're planning for a threesome then. Or at least I am, she just knows I would like one haha.

Now the thing is I do have a few girls in the past that I have dated before who are bisexual. If I was to try and lure them into being the 2nd girl, how would I go about doing it? I'm thinking that I should get her to help me...

I certainly don't want to have to find one from sarging in the time that I have left. I guess I wouldn't really be bothered if I didn't get the threesome as I could just fuck her after the night out, but I'm stil; going to try.

Would I be better off going straight for the proposal with the girls I know, or would it better better to game then first and make them want it?

Any advice?

Ninja

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Before you start hunting for a third, you might want to make sure the HB your with is cool with it. Don't want to find one and then have it backfire and cause problems with your current gal.

That being said, ask her what rules she would want in place. Is your current gf bi? Could she handle watching you fuck another woman? Would she care if it was one of your exes? Could she alone find another girl and ask of your approval ?

The things is, fulfilling a fantasy shouldn't be all about you. She's involved too.

How would you feel if she wanted 2 guys?

Don't pressure her into this.

If you casually mention you want one and just want to know exactly where you're at with her with getting one, she'll tell you. It will be an outright no or an outright yes. Most often it's somewhere in between.

Once you know exactly what needs for it to happen that won't hurt her, do that.

Hitting up an ex is a very simple tactic. It should be a very distant ex though.

Another thing I noticed, you're cool with it NOT happening. That's awesome. 3somes are a very over rated thing anyways. Let her know that this birthday event doesn't HAVE to happen and that you are fine with just having a great night with her. That will take any unnecessary pressure or obligations to get this done by a deadline. If anything you could just tell her you'd like it happen but only at a time you're ready if ever. If that isn't in a few weeks, that's fine.

From how you posed this question, I'd lean towards the side it can happen with her. Just not maybe as soon as you'd like. Be patient and rock her world regardless. You might care about this one a notch more than you think.

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