Hi, I have recently closed an HB at a couple of gatherings at mutual friends houses yet I have come across a slight dilemma. Although I gamed her well, got all the green lights and we had good chemistry yet when it came to getting down

. In simple terms, she was extremely greedy in the bedroom, (in my circumstances I do not particularly want to have sex as I am still with my long-distant girlfriend and I feel bad) as I would finger her and go down on her yet nothing in return? I talked to ex-boyfs of her and apparently she has a fear of the penis :/ I've tried freezing when she rejects to do me any favours such as talking about the SPAM of the party etc etc but she just looks confused and like I am gay or something

Anyone got any ideas?
I know many girls think the penis smells and is gross so maybe have a thing in the shower?
All advice is appreciated.
