Hi guys..
First of all, thanks for reading.

I've met this girl in november, and we had a couple of dates, kissed and fucked.
In december I had to move away for the month, and we had very lithe contact, almost nothing.

Now I'm back in the city, and wants to hook up with her..

Shes pissed, and she seems unavailable.

We met the day I came back in town, had lunch and talked a little bit. I could feel she felt let down, and was mad at me.

After that when I text her, she only answers the question, she is not asking anything back.
And if I don't text her, she's not texting me at all..

Yesterday i texted if she wanted to come over, and she did.. We had a good night, she surprised me with a cup of my favorite coffee, slow danced, she sang in my sar and she kissed me again.

And today, we are back in this shitty pattern, where I ask the questions, she answers, but doesn't ask back..
Its not even a conversation, more like an interrogation!!

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1. Have you guys tried this?

2. What do you think she is up to?

3. How should I behave if I want her to be mine?

Looking forward to her from you.

Scarface_89

It sounds like things were sweet to start off with but then they soured. Here's my guess I bet that she thought you 2 had something special and then got mad when you left for a month and didn't call or text her.

Honestly bro most PUA's are not exactly the best to ask about relationships, just look at Mystery - when it comes to pickup the guy is untouchable but he can't maintain a relationship to save his life.

Next time she gives you the cold shoulder just ask whats wrong she may be reluctant to tell you at first but at least after she does you'll know where you went wrong and what to do to fix it.

Bottom line is she wouldn't of gone on the date with you if she wasn't still interested in you but clearly her feelings are hurt you just need to figure out why.

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Thanks for the reply, mate!

I already asked her whats wrong, and she told me that she once felt very safe with me, and that she liked me a lot.. She was hurt when i left her for a month, and she said that she tried to rip me out from her mind and heart..
Now she's telling me she is willing to start over, but she's having a hard time gaining trust to me again!

Today I sent her some flowers at her work, I'm waiting for her reaction right now!

Should I keep doing what I do.. Be so sweet and romantic its almost not cute, or should I tell her this is it, take me now or never? What do you think?

Nah man what your doing now is great just don't get too lovey dovey, as long as she knows you're there for her and that you care she'll be fine. Giving her flowers is fine, constantly telling her how amazing she is or how much you love her isn't. At the moment you're rebuilding the relationship so something confrontational like "Take me now as I am" will just put her on the spot and make her feel uncomfortable. If you do this chances are you'll blow it with her.

From what you've told me she clearly really liked you and she will again just give it time. Honestly I reckon that if everything goes smoothly between you and her you two will go back to the way you were at the beginning in a week or so.

Good luck bro! Hope things work out between you two

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