Hey guys,
New to the forum! Used to live on these sites reading whatever I could, got a girlfriend and that was that. Things are kind of iffy now so I've been getting back into the game and I need some advice!
Here's my situation (brief):
Had a birthday party back in October where I met this gorgeous girl. Didn't talk with her at all other than a casual hi, thanks for coming to my birthday (she was a friend of a friend). She added me on facebook and I only spoke to her again when it was her bday in December and I wished her a happy birthday on facebook. We talked and I gave her my number and told her to text me sometime and we could go out and celebrate her bday. She immediately texted me telling me to save her number (which I imagined was a good thing lol). Anyways, I tried to meet with her 3 times within the next two weeks with no success because she always had things to do. There was a big rave in my city at the end of December and a few days before she had texted me asking if I was going and that she was trying to find a ticket. She ended up getting one so the night of I texted her telling her to let me know when she got there. She ended up coming with 3 other guys so I was buzzkilled when I saw that, but she told me she would come and find me. So basically throughout the night she would always be texting me asking where I was, coming to see me and grind with me, then go back to her friends. I knew a lot of people at this event and whenever she was with me people would come up and buy us both drinks (people have reason to be on my god side) so I think this worked in my favour. She was giving lots of IOI's (I think that's what they're called lol) so I tried escalating a bit by biting her ear and kissing her neck which she responded to VERY WELL, smiling these huge smiles and pulling me in closer. So I finally asked her if she would be mad if I kissed her (don't know why I asked this...trying to be nice I guess) and she said a little, so I said whatever it's worth it and we made out for a while. This was near the end of the night and my phone had died so when she left after that I couldn't tell her where I was to come meet me again and she couldn't just come find me (crowd of 3000+ people). So I texted her the next day saying we should link up and she said she was really down. Problem is that we've already made plans twice and she's texted me hours before we were supposed to meet up saying she it wasn't going to work anymore :s I got fed up and told her just to text me whenever she wanted to hang out, obviously thinking she still wants to. So it's been 3 days since we last texted (we were texting almost daily before) so i'm wondering what my game plan should be...i'm not ready to move on to the next just yet ahaha
Thanks in advance and sorry if I rambled
CHAT