This is the first time I have posted on a site like this. I guess I have never really had much trouble meeting women, but I recently realised I am not attracting the right women - ie. the ones I am really attracted to.

Anyway, I think I have found such a woman now. I am an EFL teacher in Hungary and I teach this student twice a week, individual lessons (she is 27 by the way, this isn't a creepy teacher situation!). So during the lessons we have great chemistry, I won't go into details, but I am confident there is something there. About a month ago I asked her if she wanted to come to this photography exhibition with me - knowing it is a common interest for us I was sure she would accept, and she did. The problem is that between us we have not been able to find a time to go yet, and it's been a month. I thought this would be an ideal first date, and still think so, but I am getting impatient!

This weekend she invited me to come along to this concert her friend is giving (the reason the exhibition date can't go ahead this week!). First I thought great, that will do for the first date, but now I have found out that it will be me, her and another friend going. I'm not sure if this is a good or bad sign, on one hand this is something they have had arranged for a long time, and she wants me to come so I suppose she wants to see me, on the other she doesn't seem that bothered that it's not just the 2 or us.

My question is should I continue being patient, and just go along with her and the friend, and wait for a chance to go to the exhibition, or try to arrange something to do before the concert? I am considering asking her to help me improve my Hungarian (she finds it charming when I attempt to speak the language, so could be a fun date)...

If you have made it this far through my diatribe, then thanks, I appreciate the effort and any opinions you may have!

Ok first off, you have great chemistry. Ill have to take your word for it.
Ok, you her and a third person on a date? Not a problem. She is throwing you a bone here. Giving you the chance to still see her rather than just saying he is busy she is inviting you along!!
Go, for god sake sake go! And have a great time, make friends with her friend wether male or female. And demonstrate your social qualities. For all you know she fancies you but isn't quite 100% and would like her friends opinion.
So go forth and be charming. After the gig maybe if the vibes right suggest a drink elsewhere. The friend can stay with or bugger off. Hopefully things will be good and the friend will realise he is digging you and bugger off.

On the other hand, if you say no your not going she may take it as a rejection. She is doing what you want, spending time with you. Don't punish her.