so me and this girl have known each other for a few years, went to the same school, worked in the same place while we were at college, my mum and her aunt used to work together as well. we haven't seen each other for a few years due to her working in France and Spain, and we've both just got out of LTRs... shes now looking to move back to Europe for work again within the next couple of weeks... we've always had a sort of flirty connection but shes a HB9 and i never thought id get anywhere with her... of course now I've found the community i realise thoughts like that are just self destructive and anything can be achieved. Im new to PU so still not even done many approaches but i need some ideas what to do with this girl!

we speak daily on facebook, and shes said that she will definitely not be leaving the country without seeing me, i said id cook her chilli and she could come round to chill and watch some movies... so thats sorted just dont know how to play it as i dont yet know what the SPAM will be like when she comes over.

all help greatly appreciated. Tramp.

What I can say is that in order to get a specific girl, you need to know how to get girls in general. It's hard because you're in the Friend Zone with her. Sure, she wants to see you because you both know each other for a long time, not any other reason. Girls flirt all the time, so if she flirted with you a few years back doesn't mean anything at all. Keep in mind that the only thing that separates a boyfriend from a friend is physicality. But you need to go out and learn how to get a lot of girls and than this will seem really easy for you. This does not work with knowing/reading a few tricks and than applying to get the girl and BAM you go the girl..you'll need to cultivate the skill to live in abundance and that takes times.

Good luck..