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| Ponch41 | PostPosted: Fri Sep 28, 2012 8:22 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Apr 28, 2012 6:24 am Posts: 22 | | So I sat next to this girl in class and today was the second day. Got ioi's and shit got her number simple. I really didn't want to waste time texting her so by the third or fourth text I said:
Me- .You said you're not doing anything so we shall have dinner together later tonight..you seem pretty chill
Her-Shall we now? Lol I actually do have plans for once! Some one asked me to go see a movie. Thanks though you're pretty chill yourself.
I honestly don't care I'm just getting references but when we were talking in real life about movies she was saying she rarely goes and now all of a sudden she's going to one..? Idk if this is a shot test or what.
I have t replied yet.
Let me know what you guys think I should do or say to her now. I see her in class again on Monday. Thanks.
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| Ponch41 | PostPosted: Fri Sep 28, 2012 8:23 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Apr 28, 2012 6:24 am Posts: 22 | | I was thinking About asking what movie and with who but I'm not trying to sound needy because Im really not.
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| THEelegance | PostPosted: Fri Sep 28, 2012 9:30 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Sep 25, 2012 5:12 am Posts: 7 Location: Norman Oklahoma | | No don't ask her that.
I do not understand we she said: "shall we now?"
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| xXcruxXx | PostPosted: Sat Sep 29, 2012 12:35 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sun Jul 22, 2012 1:11 am Posts: 78 | | Don't respond. Instead, go out and meet 10 other women. I'm sure there are parties/bars in you college town. You're the prize, she rejects your invitation, it's her loss.
If she asks about it on monday (IOI), just casually tell her something came up and you went to hang out with some friends instead.
What this also might mean is that you haven't built enough attraction with her yet. Furthermore, i personally don't think it was a good idea to put that she's a "chill" person. Next time try and set the woman you're texting in a different frame, such as an adventurous one. "You look like and adventurous person..." and then go from there. Always assuming they are fun/adventerous will usually make them want to meet your expectations. Good luck.
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| GearOne | PostPosted: Sun Sep 30, 2012 5:51 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Sep 28, 2012 2:22 pm Posts: 35 | | I don't know if this is the reason, but I've realized dinner doesn't do the trick anymore. I don't know if girls automatically link it to romance or something, but I mention dinner and it seems like the connection I have with a girl just goes to shit. It seems like mr. boring and mr. standard just pushed my ass out of the way and kicked the girl in the tubes. Anything going on in living social? Throw something interesting out there. Some things around me that I've taken girls to are rock climbing, plays by our university, ice cream, and art galleries. Just try and determine what kind of girl she is, and throw something interesting out there.
Just be sure -not- to keep listing things when she says no the first time, comes off looking desperate. Your style is aggressive, I kind of like it. Like xXcruxXx said though, chill totally went against that aggressive play call. _________________ Seeking advice from someone doesn't mean you have admitted defeat. It means you have acknowledged their superiority, and with their guidance, you will become more superior as well.
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