Gents,

Picked up this HB9 at a bar last weekend. Got her phone number and went for a kiss close and got denied. She was into me... lots of IOIs but I didnt build enough comfort. Anyways I texted her 2 days later and she said she doesn't want to be "presumptuous" but she has a boyfriend and didn't want to give any wrong impressions by giving me her number. This could be why she didnt kiss me.. but she also seems like a bit of a prude. (not saying thats bad but she just didnt seem like a slut lol...very proper...ect).

SO i texted her backing saying "im not trying to marry you.. .we just have a lot in common" (which is true we really did). She responded and agreed with me and we kept texting a few more times until i stopped.

My question is now what? Is this a dead end or not? I wanna see this girl again... but i need help handling this boyfriend objection. DO I just play it off as if he doesnt exist?

****This girl gave me her number... never said anything about a BF at the bar... and is responding to my texts showing interest.... do you thinks shes bluffing?? Either way

HOW DO I GET HER TO GO OUT WITH ME FOR A DAY 1?

Thanks-
Duke

Feel free to post a reply or PM me. Thanks again guys!

Duke

I would assume

1: shes lying (ie it's a shit test)
or
2: shes telling the truth (but is unhappy with her current relationship)

either way i'd keep gaming her.. whats the worst that could happen?
you get blown out? well that's better than giving up

I't obvious that she likes you, but something is holding her back; and I do not mean the boyfriend. Not certain what that is; maybe age, looks, status... But more likely ..comfort! She is mostly likely having a difficult time with her boyfriend or at least feels not as loved or cared for as shed wishes to be. So she is getting that NEEDED emotion through you, because she knows that you will provide that. But she needs to rationalize why she is attracted to you, so that it is not her fault! So she doesn't feel like a cheating slut! She is using you to make herself feel better, even if she doesn't mean to be. This is a bad thing as she is the last person you should care about, because this may never be, and if it does happen she may be a NEEDY GF!

But if your just looking to get in her pants! Try a little script flip, and give her the 'ole LJBF speech.

Then let HER qualify herself to YOU.

Interject a lot of sexual innuendo in to your conversations, flirting...but still just friends, mixed messages like..: "Wow good thing we'er just friends, with an ass like that I'd have you naked by now!" "But that's not going to happen!" with a lot of humor!! even smack her on the ass to make the point!

Be distant, take a while to reply to messages, never give a straight answer when you do!

In between.....CHASE OTHER PUSSY!!!!

Hope this helps Bro

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Yes this helps thanks for the post. We dont live super close to each other (about 40 mins away) so this may be a bit of an issue. Should I just continue to text her to build comfort? or do you have any other better ways? Anyways the goal is to get her out on a date (we havnt been on a date yet) 1 on 1.... how do I do this without showing a lot of interest? if im texting her every day its showing a lot of interest....

Thanks!
Duke

Thanks for the confidence! I agree... she may have a BF but our interaction went well enough to where she is interested in me... which i think is a good sign. Any idea on how to get her on a first date w/o looking needy?


Thanks,
Duke

Not a big fan of text, but with girls and women, it seems to be the way of the world anymore.

Once in a while send a random text opener, "I was at the pet store today, seen a fish that reminded me of you "

Then take to a sexual level

Another good idea: Look up "The Dream" text

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Do this. Shoot her a text and be like, "Hey, I'm gonna be up at such and such today, you should come by and see me." Make the place you are going to be conveniently close to her and during her free time, if possible. But also make it seem like you are just randomly going to be there and you just thought you'd be cool and see if she wants to come by since you'll be there anyway. Tell her you are meeting some friends or had some errand or something. Let her know you were there for some other reason BESIDES meeting her. If she can't meet up with you for a low-pressure encounter like that, which you have intentionally framed as a non-date, then she definitely won't go to dinner and a movie with you, so you might as well try that one first.

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Im not a fan of going after women with bf's because to me its a grey area, that being said it seems like this girl is interested and I would say she will be easy to hook up with by her actions.

She seems like the kind of girl who puts her self in bad situations knowing in the back of her head that she could cheat, and as long as she can blame it on you she will cheat....just wait you will hear "It just happend" come out of her mouth after lol

keep us posted.

Never heard that one!...Bawhahahahahaha

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