Hey,

So I just recently got a number close the only issue I have is once I told her I wanted to go for a date she had agreed, and then told me to phone her the next day. Now I didn't phone her the next day, rather I held it off the day after I was suppose to call her. Now that I call her (Which I did twice), not 1000 times she didnt pick up. I texted her and asked her to call me back. Its been 24 hours no call back. I am even scared she might have canceled on our date which was a run on a board walk. I am confused of day 2's never been on dates, more hanged out. Only real date came out of a recent relationship I was in and it was all her dominating it all the way through.

What I need help with is whether or not too phone her back or text till I get a response, or just wait it out till she calls and play it off as if I didnt care, or absolutely ignore her.

I really need help recently had a hard time at work, and first number close since I broke up with a girl I really liked. I am pretty much on low self-esteem just recently got over most of the hurdle I had, but if i get rejected I would pretty much feel extremely depressed again and probably take a big break from PUA. I need some support from you guys right now!

First, breathe.

Second, don't get all your self-esteem from validation. That's a huge part of this process. We don't go after women so we can feel better about who we are. You need to feel good about yourself no matter what. Rejection shouldn't be the "I am awesome meter". You need to have that on your own. Once you do, the ladies come pouring in, because they can smell the confidence.

Third, if a girl tells you to ring her the next day, do it. The problem with this community is that I believe we rely too much on games and the focus on a linear path of what to do next. You need to be able to get off the path and improvise. It's not common a girl will always tell you to ring her the next day, but when she does, that means she's attracted so DO IT. Who knows what may have happened to her but on first guess she may have been upset you waited another day to call her. Or maybe she's out of town now and you missed your chance to call her and that's why she said call her the next day. Either way, the point is, you'll never know exactly what's going on.

Fourth, wait another week to text her. Text her again and say this:

"Hey troublemaker It's been a crazy week for me, how've you been?"

This has a chance of getting her back in and showing you're not affected. If still no response, drop it, and keep going out. Meet more women and practice day 2's.

-Tripp

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