so ive been told my whole life im an attractive guy, (recently ive been gettin a better looking version of drake smh) and some times i amaze myself with the shit i say but i have always had an issue closing... its never been a problem of getting the girl alone but rather i choke wen it gets down to the deed... dont get me wrong i do very well with a chick who is willing to make that first move but as soon as she plays the waiting game for me to make the first move it never happens, i dont know why, and i would like to fix the issue.
case in point, im stayin with my cuzin who happens to have a bundle of cute friends and even though they all call me cute and flirt wit me, ive only screwed one of em, and def not the hotter of the bunch. i actually had one in bed wit me an still i cringe to think that i still coudnt muster up wat ever it takes to fuck her... its just sad really and i def need sum help sooo yeah....

First of all your honest to yourself so that's a good start. I am also very good looking and have been told this my whole entire life but always failed to make the first move until I had this very very very attractive girl invite me to her place and was on her bed and she was half naked but I failed to make the first move. After that I promised myself I am going to fix this and that's when I found this community and now things are much different from me. Now back to the problem. The problem is the more handsome the guy is the less he has to work for the girls since the attention is spoon fed to him. Therefore the more handsome guy is used to the girls making the first move. This becomes an instinct to them and they always expect things to come to them. It's such a pity there are so many handsome guys out there who can be getting the best and hottest girls but they don't because of this problem. But there is a way to fix it and that is learn to become a initiator. Meaning learn how to make the first move and lead instead of follow. This means you have to accustom yourself to not caring about what anyone thinks and doing exactly what you want. This involves 2 steps

Step#1 Become not needy. Failure to make a move means you think that you aren't entitled to make the first move. This comes from insecurities. This can either be from childhood or because your girlfriend cheated on or some other reason. Dig deep into yourself and be honest with yourself and write down on a piece of paper exactly why your insecure be honest with yourself.The main thing is to be honest with yourself just like you did on this post. Keep this paper private to yourself and read it once in a while.

Step#2 Putting yourself all in. Many times your in a situation where you are thinking whether to say or do something but are afraid of the results that it will produce. For example initiate the kiss on a girl. Therefore you become neutral and might do something less than kissing like asking her if she wants to kiss or something like that. This is caused by the fact that you don't want to put yourself all in and therefore don't want to make yourself vulnerable. It's going to be painful but you have to learn and practice on going all in and making yourself vulnerable and not caring what the fuck anyone says. This means you have to think of yourself high enough to believe that your choice is the right one.

This will definitely help you fix yourself up. Good luck.

- Amazing Art -

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