Guys,

I went on 3 dates.

1st date: Coffee shop. DHV from my side. IOIs from the target. Hugged the girl at the end and gave her a lip kiss. Kiss was horrible. No tongue.

2nd date: Took her to movie and dinner. Again hugged and kissed. She initiated the kiss. Hugged her like 3 times. Total AFC move I know. Once I got pat in the back out of 3 hugs. Not a good sign. Paid for the dinner and told her that she should pay next time. She agreed. Texted her the next day that I had good time. She said, she had good time too. But she texted me like 4-5 hours after I texts (IOD?)

3rd date: She is going to DC tomorrow. She invited me for lunch. She paid for the lunch. Talked shit for an hour. Gave her a hug, got a slight pat. Went for the kiss, she moved her head sideways. Pecked her on the cheek. She said that she is not comfortable kissing me. She wants to take it slow. I said OK. Let me give you one more hug. This time no more pat. Parted ways. I said we should hangout next Sunday when she will be back. She said yes but out of politeness I guess. I said, I will talk to her later.

Q: Should I say "Next!"? Doesn't look like closing will be easy with this chick.

Side note:I have 2 numbers and guaranteed closing this Tuesday night (potential of a fuck buddy). Should i start gaming other chicks instead of waiting for this one?

Please advice.

Thanks in advance.

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Any advice guys?

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Next.
this smells of the friendzone.

my personal rule is "kiss within 2 dates or next". a kiss is easy as fuck to get. people get kissed in clubs in half an hour or less. so if a girl is not down to kiss you within 2 dates, you are already friendzoned in my book.

you might make an exception and get to 3 dates if there were steady signs of escalation, and her resistance going down at each moment. here, it seems things went the other way: awkward kiss on the first date, some kissing on the second date, almost LJBF on the third date. a reverse escalation. do not have a fourth date, unless the LJBF speech gets your pussy wet

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"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

That's true. If she is not comfortable kissing me on the third date, I guess it's time to say "Next!". Otherwise I have to wait for 30 more dates to take off her panties. That may not happen as these bitches have tendency of saying "LJBF" anytime after they suck the life and money of the guy.

BTW, after lunch, I did send her a message saying thanks for the lunch and wishing her good trip. She replied quickly saying she is enjoying getting to know me better. Also, likes how we joke and laugh together. I thanked her again and said, I like hanging out with her too!

I just froze her out. I have two numbers for this weekend. If she contacts me, I don't know what to do. Probably, I will just make some excuse, not sure yet. She did check me on the dating site though.

Let me see what happens.

Thanks guys for the feedback.

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