Hi guys there's a little bit of a history between me and this girl but im going to keep it as short as possible
1) We met a few months ago, went out, flirted alot, texted, day 2'd, flirted harder, 'taught' her how to play pool (nice kino), and tried to Kiss close but failed because I was too drunk to realise her friends mother was watching us (shes 19, im 20)
2) We continued flirting a bit but interest was lost, UNTIL i became a headlining DJ at a lot of house clubs, in the city we live in - and she starts texting me again. Msg's from out of the blue saying "Alexanderrr! bla bla bla excuse to talk to you!?" we've had 2-3 convos through text over the past few months until today, and I always end up not replying to her last message
3) PRESENT DAY: She texts me last week (because she knows im a personal trainer) asking for some advice for her legs/butt/hips etc, and I take it as she's just interested. Btw this girl is a solid 9/10, has 10 guys chasing her at any given time etc.
Our latest conversations:
3 days ago:
me: So you gonna come out with me friday night?
her: depends on where you're gonna be boy! Ill be arriving at the city at 12;30 from parkville, ill be with my bestest gurl friend
me: i got people wanting me to go to x, y and z - but i think ill end up at x
her: ok let me know when you find out
So friday is the next day and I dont text at all, I call her (at this point i was intoxicated). I sounded really fun on the phone, i was actually being picked up by 2 women on the train to where we were going (not very hot, but still fun) - i dont even remember what she said to be honest, i just wanted to call to make sure she remembers my vibe etc
Texts on Friday night ensue: (us both drunk)
me: you should be here...
her: where are you guys!?
me: were at "y" get here ASAP!
her: haha that place sucks! (she always asks ME where to go out, shes just trying to DHV saying the place im at sucks)
me: who cares, im here = fun
her: haha regardless of how good a dancer you are and how fun you are, were not going to that place! let us know if you go to "x"
so i didnt reply, and low and behold she rings me that night at 4 am (about 5 hours after texting) telling me shes stranded in the city, and the first thing i said was "what so you call me cuz you want a ride?" and she was like "oh no . bla bla bla, just seeing if u were doin something bla bla" so i said na im sleeping lol, but speak soon ok and ended it soon after
Next day i text : "hey wat u end up doing yesterday?"
her: "I walked around the city for 2 hours til i was convenient picked up by a friend passing the city!"
me: oh sorr babe! if i knew you were stranded i wouldve come got you " (and she did say she was stranded lol)
her: "Why would i lie!! im going out tonight and i have actual lifts to and from haha"
me: "well ive got friends at x , y and z wanting me to go, where are you going? (and this is legit because she knows i headline at clubs)
her: We were going to go to X, but i have a group of friends at this place "bla bla" on xyz street
me: ok well were gona be at x. let me know how your night goes
***Curve BALL***
her: "why would you even care haha"
So i didnt know how to take this, she replied instantly aswell, so i assumed she was at first trying to brush me off or something? except shes been calling me at 4 am and texting me out of the blue? Dont get it
i respond with: "So i can rub it in when my nights better than yours!;)"
her: "Lmao cool" (instant response)
At this point it looked like she lost interest, didnt even care about waiting to respond she wanted me off her case. At this point i was kind of confused lol, and a bit annoyed at her too so i texted her about 30 mins later saying:
"Wait im confused, why did you call me yesterday at 4 am again?"
her: "To say Hi lmao"
WTF?!?! this bitch is weird! so i didnt respond for a whole day, almost 24 hours
after that period i respond "at 4? haha ur weird"
then instantly she responds: "Youre whack why reply a day late?"
again dont know how to read this, it kind looks like shes sitting there waiting for my response, and shes texting me back instantly after ive been waiting a whole day to text her
i reply: "I havnt been home since saturday and my phones dead, sorry!"
her: "NO PROBLEM HALAL" (just an inside joke, i think just to kind of cover up that she doesnt care that i took so long to respond)
Ok so thats everything up til right now, i havnt responded to that text. But we have a mutual friend in common and its her birthday coming up in 1 week so were gonna see eachother there. I was thinking of not texting her until the day before, and then msging: "Hey u gonna be at "x"s birthday?" and take it from there
I dont know if shes showing interest or not with these messages, although you wouldnt call someone at 4 in the morning to "say hi" if u didnt like them a bit.
Anyway your guys thoughts/opinions? Ive got another chance at this super stunning girl, but i dont want to fuck it up - how do you guys recommend i should act next in regards to texting/acting on the actual day we meet up?
I got the best responses from her when I was acting like a c+f / confident / bit of an asshole / too busy for her kind of guy - but i do this alot and i miss alot of lays because girls think that I THINK im too good for them, or i dont BUILD ENOUGH COMFORT with them, but i have the attraction down pat.
Thanks in advance guys!
Alexander
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