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| Mantis- | PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 1:20 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Thu May 12, 2011 2:36 pm Posts: 223 Location: Netherlands | | So, I met this girl before, she has a busy schedule during the day (wake up early all week etc., so she cant go out at night usually) and I'm usually busy during the night.
We made plans that we would have a d2, she flaked twice now and told me we should meet up during holiday (4 weeks from now).
As I've never done a d2 (hate 'em), is this reasonable? Will the d2 ever come?
I got the feeling the answer will be ye (she insisted on it a few times), but im unsure.
Anyyone has ananswer for me?
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| Amadieus | PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 5:11 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Fri Feb 04, 2011 6:45 pm Posts: 228 Location: Netherlands | | Hows your contact with her?
Does she starts texting you?
Does she keeps the conversation going?
Basicly whats the overall feeling when you are in contact with her?
After 2 flakes its mostly basicly game over. But as a last shot at love i would wait some weeks until you have holiday and then re-establish contact and go for a day2 after a small good convo on text.
Goodluck
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| Mantis- | PostPosted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 8:14 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Thu May 12, 2011 2:36 pm Posts: 223 Location: Netherlands | | She initiates fb chat every time, and thats the thing I really don't like (even though it should be positive).
Yesterday she told me that she basicly only has tuesday as a free day.
I was thinking maybe send her next monday: Got plans tonight? If she says no, i'll say now you do.
But I'll probably wait till holidays, then me and her both have plenty of time.
Also, its probably 2 weeks instead of 4, made a miscalculation.
2 weeks should be fine if I keep slight contact I assume?
In the beginning contact was cool, but because I dont like facebook chat (or any other messenger) to talk to girls (for pick up at least), I start liking the contact less and less.
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| Amadieus | PostPosted: Fri Jun 15, 2012 9:02 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Fri Feb 04, 2011 6:45 pm Posts: 228 Location: Netherlands | | If she is free on teusday you can try to hit for that day. But 2 weeks on the other hand are not that long either. Choose what feels most comfortable for you.
I would advise to just do your thing on your computer and when she starts chatting with you just respond when you feel for it. With this i mean to respond to her but on your own time.
So basicly:
You wait 2 weeks and respond to her very relaxed when she initiates contact with you.
And when the 2 weeks are over its time to start the master plan wich is setting up ze date!
Goodluck!
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