Hey guys,
This is actually the first time i post on this forum with a question, cause i doubt about myself at this moment what i did wrong. I'll start with the full story.
the girl is an American Exchange student here in the Netherlands, HB8, very cute smile.
Saw her at lunch in my faculty, invited her to come to international evening that night in a bar. She showed up, i talked with some other friends before going to her. ( she seemed drunk) Apparently she forgot me but that was ok. I kept talking with her, ofcourse did escalation and ended up kissing. Got her number aswell, did some more kissing before she left. We made an arrangement for lunch the day after.
The day after, i text her in the morning if she still wanted to lunch, no response. Later on facebook ( after lunchtime..) i get a message i forgot about her( which was not true, obviously) Asked her if she wanted to come over for cartoons and cereals( my standard line for a date, works like a charm) She said she couldnt come for cereals because of homework, but for cartoons she was coming.
We meet up later that night, i show her around the city in the night, we go to a bar, have a beer and a good talk, then go to the park, where we start kissing etc etc. Walk her home, nothing happens
day three, Ask her if she wants to meet up before she goes to belgium for a week. First a no, but later she text me she will miss me, so i answer by saying i can come now to your place. So i go to her place, we sleep together , i had to leave early in the morning for work so kiss her goodbye and she said she wanted to meet again.
Now the shit starts which makes me doubt myself ( which i have NEVER ever had )
We have little contact by text messages, she doesnt have free messaging or whatever. So we text occasionally ( maybe once or twice a day ) :
Me : I enjoyed last night, monday you were back right ( she told me that the day we slept)
her : I did too, and yes, i think that is right
Me: Great! enjoy your trip this weekend and please cheer for Holland tonight, we are playing an important football match tonight.
Her : Haha okay, i will cheer. only because I'm nice!
Me : hmmmm, you are ?
Her : Yes! ... im a 14 ( she asked me to scale her 1 to 10, so i said 14 some days before)
Me : 14 is my favorite number, what a coincidence!
2-3 hours passed
Me : Cheer more! we are 1 goal behind
Her : I am Sorry
Next day
Me : I havent heard 'i dont know' ( she used to say this alot ) in quite some time now, I kinda miss it.
Her : Aww How sweet
I havent heard 'fuck you' in awhile and i kind of miss it?? ( i said fuck you a couple of times when she mocked me in a fun way )
Me : Im trying to stop saying it! But when i say it it actually means that i like the person
Her : Well good, cause i pretty much like you too.
me : When you are back in Delft give me a notice, so i can say fuck you again;)
Her : Haha I will
Her ( Middle of the night, i was asleep) : I wish you were here
Promise you're not married right ( my FB status says married with some random chick)
Me : Promise, I'm waiting for you like a loyal dog ( wtf was wrong with me here...)
The day after:
Me : I think meeting you brought me good luck! After 4 months of experimenting the experiment from last friday just proved to be perfect ( i work on my thesis SPAM)
Her : That's Great! I'm definately good luck!
me : Then i definately have to see you before friday, cause i have an exam then
Like 12 hours later
her : Glat kli kledong ( WTF? )
Me : Lol, drunk much??
her : That actually wasnt me! my friends were fucking with me:P
me : When are you coming back ? My life is very exciting without you but it could be more exciting!
Her : I think i'll be back on Sunday!
Thats where i'm at now. The thing that fucks me the most is that i think i might start liking her more and more.... I've had so many experience with woman but usually its just for 1 night, this time i totally like her and i dont want to do something wrong. I also see stupid mistakes i made in texting and stuff. It just makes me nervous when i like this girl. Whataya guys think ?
CHAT
