I have been seeing this girl for a month now and i need help escalating sexually. The problem is she got out of a relationship where the guy just hit it and quit it so in the beginning she said she doesn't want to rush into anything and get to know me. I have fooled around with her already but no sex. I actually do like her and i just need help getting to the next level. Any cocky/funny approaches that can help? Should i play hard to get? Any help would be appreciated.

if she is looking for emotional support... then be there for her for quite a while... but dont let her friend zone you... insert some spikes of sexual banter and escalated playfulness.. like do some kino routines... be the funny alpha rather than clownish bozo... if you take up the role of being the man in her life, she would automatically assume the role of being the woman in yours.
Let her observe that you can emotionally relate to her, but also make her feel that when it comes to friends, you already have enough of them in your life... you are not looking to be a friend in her life... rather something more than that.

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Patience and Calibration are the keys for the perfect seduction
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