Hey guys been a while,
::Stretches arms, Yawns, lights cigar::
Lol anyway I need a little advice on what i've been prepping to be in a LTR I know I know why have one when you can have 5 right? Well let's just say i've been in the game for about a year now and beyond transforming my life for the better its of course given me a lot of options when it comes to females which was my initial goal but I have someone that has really seems like there worth committing exclusively too so i'm going for it... Of course my inner PUA also knows that could just be my inner AFC sneaking back on me.
Anyway I'm currently involved with an older woman we've just been dating for about 4 months now though we've known each other for in the area of 6 months. everything always seems fine on the surface but there's always something that happens every 2-3 weeks where we'll have a disagreement not talk for maybe a day or two then start all over again. She's like me in a lot of ways in that I know she has a lot of suitors but I know i'm at the top of the list. (Most men can never compare to those who have invested and learned solid game) And she knows of my Player lifestyle and Nitpicks at it. Just because i'm successful with meeting and closing with women i'm a dog -_- although I haven't had sex with anyone else since I've been sexually active with her to the best of her knowledge I only slipped up once but i'm not even restraining my sex drive for her it's to become a better business man (a completely different topic) Ipreviously tried to make our relationship official a month ago and she said no It wasn't a blow to my self esteem or anything it's just like what look at me! You have to Love me lol she said that I was too young i'm 23 she's 31 (but lied about her age and said she was 27 when we initially started talking) and that she has so many options. I have already just created tension and jealousy by just blowing her off multiple times by saying things like "Well Were just friends." and of course "Can I text you later i'm on a date" (I really was and did that twice) then although she saw through my plot I did still work and we were dating again for a while. Then she asks me randomly in a text a few weeks later "Do you want to date" the context was vague and it honestly was a character test (Shit Test) that although I saw through I still fell into anyway by saying If you mean in a terms of a relationship then yes. To which she replied "why" then I explained it in a entirely to long text with emotion to which she replies "Well I hope you find the perfect woman for you." I was like Uhhhh okay inside my head. LOL I've gone numb in terms of my feelings as I've developed as a PUA so moments where my AFC self would have broke down I kind of shrug off. SO anyway she calls me and wants further clarification as to why she wants me to date her and I minus a downpour of emotion really just explain how Yeah I do want to be involved with her but WILL move on if it's not mutual, she gives me the same LJBF bullshit and asks me to come over but we both change our minds on it because of the time 3 AM so now we haven't talked in around 4 days and I get a text this morning "I miss my young boo" obviously I didn't respond I'm not feeding into that trap again I feel as though she may possibly be using me not for dates but for affection and the romantic attention that I inevitably give her (seduction is very powerful) when we are together.Or more then likely she wants a relationship but just is waiting for me to say something that correctly stimulates her feminine mind or is just cautious. HELP ME FELLOW PUA'S I'm into this girl I just need a good strategy to work with!

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Being realistic is the most the most common road to mediocrity. -Will Smith

C'mon guys share your wisdom!

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Being realistic is the most the most common road to mediocrity. -Will Smith

I was in a similar situation, willing to LTR a girl and she had doubts and was also seeing some other dude. What worked for me was jealousy. Specifically, it might not matter to this girl if you have 10 random hookups a week. As long as she believes she is the only person you are seeing constantly and developing a deeper emotional intimacy with, she might be fine with the 10 other hookups. My girlfriend was put off guard by a competitor for my emotions, not by the four other competitors for my cock. If you "game" her correctly with this kind of competition, you might get drama, tears, fights, ..., and eventually a LTR

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