*she does speak english well

M: Hey HB8 this is Wesley, the one who makes you smile

HB8: Right thanks for your number

m: Youre welcome. I felt it was the right decision, right

Hb8: Yes Sure.

m: I mean you can stalk me two times a week but thats it.

(no response I begin to think she doesnt know what the word "stalk" mean)

m: hey I will be at the beach tomorrow and I want to get to know you a bit more. Coffee?

Hb8: I will be at a pool party with my friend tomorrow, but maybe we can drink coffee later

m:Yea that sounds perfect. heres a smile....
I think the next time, I'll be available is today or sunday.

HB8: okay today i can't but maybe sunday

W: sunday it is. I'll lock you into my schedule. how do you feel about 2?

Hb8: I dont know yet because I will be with my friend but i don't what we will do yet. I can write you when I know.

m: Respect

m: But I wouldnt mind learning about you before lol...that is if you have any time to spare darling.

Hb8: Ok yes i will try to have time for you but it will not be so easy this weekend.

M: that's perfect. We can worry about that in the future. I'm interested in your day, right now.
(no response)


She was a two set open and I couldnt isolate but i still tried to kiss close (would have been success if isolated) and I think the friend liked me. I used mystery and Style's method.

I am going to give you some constructive criticism. I am not trying to offend you with anything I say..just make you better.

1. Don't use so many smily faces.
2. Never text a girl back if she doesn't give you a response( lowers your value)

3. "m: Youre welcome. I felt it was the right decision, ((right))" No need to ask for her approval just state it.

4. "m: Respect

m: But I wouldnt mind learning about you before lol...that is if you have any time to spare darling. " This lowers your value even more in her eyes.. keep your texting conversations to a minimum and learn about her when you are actually with her in person.

5. "Hb8: Ok yes i will try to have time for you but it will not be so easy this weekend. " This to me personally sounds like a flake comment. Do not get your hopes up

6. "M: that's perfect. We can worry about that in the future. I'm interested in your day, right now. " I know you are trying to be nice..but, the nice guy card will most likely not get you anywhere, because it makes you look needy.

Hopefully pointing out these bits and pieces can help you improve your texting game. Good luck!

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