So this HB9 makes plans with me, she agrees when I ask her, then she flakes.

This has happened twice.

So I stopped talking to her for a couple weeks, then I was bored so I sent her a picture of a chode in sunglasses on facebook and said "I found you on google images, whered ya get dem shades girl?"

After that said "we've been skippin out on the bible study, and I blame YOU!"

So we made plans to chill.

I called her the next day and said "I cant hang out saturday, so we're hanging out friday."
She said that works, and we had a short playful conversation afterwards.

Then I called her today to tell her to text me her address so i know where to go tomorrow, but she didn't pick up or call me back.

I was so sure I had her this time cause my game was spot on, but now I'm just expecting her to flake.

Any idea on why a girl would consistently do this?
I know she's attracted to me, and likes my personality.

Oh, and is there anyway to pull her back in? I want to fuck her, but i'm fine with moving on, i'm getting bored.

Nevermind, found some shit on the forums that pulled her back in. She actually just texted me as I was typing that. These forums rule!

Nevermind, found some shit on the forums that pulled her back in. She actually just texted me as I was typing that. These forums rule!

Well shit, After a short playful conversation I said "I'll pick you up at 730 tomorrow, that work?". And then the conversation went dead. The fuck?

Relax dude. You're just working yourself up for no reason. Leave it until tomorrow, only time will tell if she actually flakes on you or not.

She may not even be 100% on her schedule at the moment, so she'd rather say nothing than make tentative plans. It sucks on your end, but there's nothing you can do about it.

there are tons of variables on why she would flake

-likes your attention but doesn't want to fuck you
-does not feel comfortable being alone with you
-is not attracted to you (usually physically attractive is the main problem with this one)
-has another guy, or guys that take priority over you
-friends hate you and pressure her
-her favourite dogs keep dieing one after another on the exact days you ask her out
-she thinks your needy and wants to test
-she actually is telling the truth with her excuses


really when dealing with flakes, I think it is best to just think of asking yourself, hmm, is this a pattern, or is this not a pattern?, would I want to deal with this in a relationship if this girl was butt fucking ugly?

now if the answer is yes it is a pattern, and no I would not want to deal with this if I was in a relationship with this girl and she was butt fucking ugly, then act according to her personality and how she is treating you, instead of how you think she looks and giving her special SPAM based off that,

she flakes a good 3x in a row, then don't invite her out anymore, don't even contact her, she contacts you be normal, don't invite her out for a while, give it a few days or so, she flakes a second time, don't invite her out ever, wait for her to invite you out, flake on her but give her an ultimatum of when she can hang out with you, so it is on your time, and make it something where it will not effect you if she can't come (doesn't matter if she comes or not)

if she flakes a 3rd time, assume she is an attention vampire, and is just wasting your time and leading you on because she is bored and wants attention and has no intention of putting your dick anywhere near her mouth in close future, these girls should just be used as texting buddies when you are bored, still invite them out here and there not very often, but don't expect they ever meet you, go meet other girls that are not flaky