Sorry long post.

I'm 23M/she's 21F. Had really fun first two dates with this girl, a coworker. Movies/cafe, and then went for dinner the 2nd time. She kind of initiated the first date when she asked me if I've seen the movie Beauty and the Beast (which is as random as it gets for me) since I didn't even know it came out. Asked her out the next day to see it, she says yes. Had a great time, with lots of laughs. A couple weeks later (Feb 7) we went for dinner and again, had a great time as it was a restaurant she's been hearing good things about. One thing I noticed though, she didn't want to be kissed on the lips afterwards. She said she wanted to be kissed on the cheeks, so I just went with it, then she kissed me as well. Oh well...

So I set up our next date for that weekend but I got sick, and actually thought it was too soon to see her. So I cancelled it the day before, told her I was sick (I was). I then asked her if she's available the next weekend (Feb 16/17), she said she'd let me know. Next time I saw her at work, I asked her what her schedule was and she says she's working the 16th so she asked me to if we could do 17th or 18th because it was her friend's bday, which they're not sure when they were doing. She says she'd let me know. I said OK. So Thursday (Feb 16) I asked her if they figured out when she's hanging out with friends, she says they're doing the bday on the 18th, so I assumed we're hanging out on the 17th. "Oh, OK... so are you good for tomorrow then?" She just says "Maybe..." in a slow voice without stating any reason.

I said "disappointing" in a joking way. She says "maybe we could do Sunday then?" I just said sure...

Maybe I'm reading too much into this, but I didn't make any plans this weekend because I thought we were hanging out and that if she wasn't sure or feeling under the weather, she'd at least let me know ahead of time. Instead of me having to ask her all the time, having to confirm stuff.

It's amazing though how sometimes at work, she doesn't show any signs of disinterest and was actually really concerned when I was sick.