Here’s my situation. It took place over 11 days. I want to learn from the situation so I don’t make the same mistakes again.

Day 1: made out with this girl for like 2 hours (she wouldn’t let me escalate below clothes or play with her pussy)
Day 2: she texted me in the morning (good flirty/fluff text)
Day 3: texted her, “hey I’m watching blank movie, you should join me.” She said maybe depends on the time. Then ended up flaking, but there was a tornado warning (so I really can’t blame her for flaking).
Day 4: hung out at a coffee shop for a few hours (really good vibe – there was flirting, strong eye contact, and physical touching).
Day 7: flirty/fluff text (she seemed fine)
Day 8: flirty/fluff text (starting seem aloof and cold in her texts)
Day 9: texted her “hey I’m watching blank movie, you should join me,” again. She said she already had plans. (she seemed really aloof and cold in her texts).
Day 10: basically ignored her in class (not going to reward her for being cold and aloof in text)
Day 11: texted her an inside joke. Her response: “haha” (which isn’t a normal response). I just gave up after that.

I think at this point I'm going to abandon ship. However, I want to know where I f**ked up for future purposes. Did I f**k up not telling her my intentions after we made out (e.g., does she think all I want is to f**k her or something)? I was also thinking she might be afraid of what she would do if we met up again or started dating. She’s super religious and I’m kind of a bad boy (don’t believe in god, experienced in sex, drugs and rock n’ roll). Any input appreciated.

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