So about 1.5 months ago met this HB9 and then had 2 more dates with her. Great vibe the whole time, close kissed both dates (not f-close situations). After the last date, I tried calling or texting 3 times over the next 5 days with no response so I stopped trying.

Jump to a few days ago I fb messaged asking to play tennis. She starts messaging me, then today she started texting me all day. I was super into this girl for the short time we chilled so I def want to pursue this girl. But I just dont want to get into being that guy that she can just ignore and then start texting again when she chooses, you know?

Any tips on gaining the upper hand a little bit here?

Thanks! Brand new to PUA community!

have sex with her

Pumpington's right. The kind of sex you need to be giving out though needs to blow her mind. You need to be on top form, and see this as your chance to really "hammer" home you're interested. That means no penetration till she asks for it, oral till her hands pull you up and away, and cuddle. cuddle. cuddle!

Not sure how much detail you can give on here, or what the rules are when it comes to linking sites. If I get an all clear though I'll send you a link to a page with some great tips. I mean really great!

Hope this helps man,

Nick

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