Hi guys,

New to the forum but have been reading PUA material for sometime. However, have never fully mastered or implemented it, which is pretty unnacceptable.

But I'm 22 and I recently went on a date with a girl I knew back in HS. I happen to see her out a local bar and she proceeded to add me on fb the next day, then she messaged me and I ended up getting her phone number. After exchanging phone numbers, she was extremely forward/agressive in texting and asked me out on a date and there as a lot of flirting messages in between. So we went out I made the suggestion that we go to a comedy show (cheap and not formal dinner or anything). So i bought the tickets in advance (like 30 bucks for 2). So we get there and along the way I find out she doesnt really drink (which is fine, but not expected, since I suggested we go to the bar/lounge of the resteraunt/comedy place before the show at 945) So we go I do a lot flirting (more cocky comedy than anything) and a lot of kino. She keeps rubing my legs etc. Then during the show I put my arm around her for most of it and she keeps her hand between my legs. So its all going very well. After the show, I offer going back to the bar /lounge but she didnt really seem to favor it one way or another, probably because she wasnt drinking. So i had to make a decision and didnt want to put her in an evironment where she wasnt even drinking, but may have been the wrong move?

So I say lets just go. Now let me disclose that we both live with our parents (so unfortunatly no option of going back to one of our places). So i go to drop her off and we stop in front of her house for like 15 mins and we make out for like 10 of them. Then I go home and she texts me thanking me for the night and said she had fun. And in the car we both said we should do it again soon.

So overall it seemed like it went well but it was short (drpped her off around 1130). But still i felt good about it. So then I decide to establish contact again during the week (a couple of days later) I text her just bringing up something we laughed about during the night (just to kick start the convo) So she just replies "hahah" and thats it (no indulgence in convo). So then of course the next day I pocket dial her by accident and then just shoot her a text saying sorry for the pocket dial. But she probably thought it was just me trying to contact her (which sucks cuz I literally did pocket dial her). Now i havent heard from her in like 4-5 days. Should I try to stir things back up and text her or wait a while before doing that? Can anyone explain this (is it a shit test?) Just really strange because she was like way overly forward in texting before the date?! But it seemed like it went well!? Advice please!

Thanks guys,
Hybrid

Sounds like you know the girl well already from your past. Realize this, stuff happens in peoples lives. Maybe she's just busy, stuff is coming up, or she's just focused on something else. It's AFC to be asking why this is happening and why she's responding the way she is. Here's what you should do: NOT CARE! I know, it seems counterintuitive. If you want to talk to her, call her. If she doesn't pick up leave a message and say "You can call me back because I want to talk to you." Hang up. Don't call her again after that until she contacts you.

Sounds like she's just playing hard to get. Don't get excited. Wait a few days, if she doesn't respond then try again. Don't say anything about why she didn't call or anything, just be casual. If she keeps being hard to get then just freeze her out. If she really had a good time she'll contact you.