I got this girls number at a bar, called her a couple days after to set up a meeting for this coming weekend.

The phone rang twice, went to voice mail. I left a message for her to call me back, it's been 24 hours and no call or text.

She didn't have my number, so she may have not known it was me calling, which was why she screened it, but she should know it was me by now and have called back.

My question is do I just wait for her to call/text, and forget about her if she doesn't, or should I call/text her again?

I'm inclined to do the latter, though I was thinking of sending her a text along the lines of "So you often give guys your number then screen their calls?" But phrase it in a way that it sounds like I'm joking. Maybe add a "haha" to the end (I hate doing that though)?

Any help would be much appreciated.

Yo man first of all dont text her that line it sounds needy.

There might be 1000 of reasons why she coudn't answer her phone, maybe she was busy, maybe she was sleeping, maybe she just not into you and she gave you her phone to be nice but you never know.

Just 2 weeks ago somthing like that happend to me, I had an amazing connection with that girl so the next day I decided to call her but she didn't pick up the phone.
Same story the day afterwards, I called again and just like what happend to you it rang twice and went to voice mail.
A day Later I left her a text msg and still she hasn't got back to me.
like 2 days after I decided to call again, this time she answered.

I actually busted her on not answering me (some guys say you shoudn't do it but it worked well for me), she told me she tought I was another guy she met who calls her, we had a nice phone call I asked her out and we met at friday night. (think about what would happen if I didn't make that one last phone call, or actually what woudn't happen ).

What I am trying to say is, you never know the reason why a girl won't pick up the phone, you should give it atleast 3-4 times before you give up, some times you will feel an amazing connection with a girl and still she won't pickup the phone so you'll have to learn to accept it.

So just try few more times, good luck

So I need to text her today. Clock's ticking.

I was thinking "I was sure you would have returned my phone call, but despite the fact that you didn't, I still want to get together. I'm busy this weekend, but I think we should see each other next week."

No matter what I think of saying, I'm having trouble making it sound like anything but "I'm into you more than you're into me", which isn't good.

I think the above is a reasonable message to send. It portrays confidence, a social life, and there's no asking for anything. Just expressing myself.


Any advice?

First off, you have to change the way you're thinking. You don't need to text her. The clock is ticking, but it's not counting down to anything.

Don't mention in any way at all that you were thinking about how she didn't call you back. There's no point, it only serves to give a hint of neediness. Just send her an opening text, if she responds, do what you usually do to set up a day 2. If she doesn't, then wait a couple days and try again.

If she's interested, then you can bring up the logistics of being busy on the weekend.

Voicemail isn't perfect either. When I try to access my voicemail, it asks for a password that I don't even know, and never set up with my cell phone provider. I can't be bothered to even set it up properly. Any number of factors could prevent her from getting that voicemail, or she may not view voicemail as something important, in the same way as me.

Don't stress too much over the small things, there's a lot that isn't under your control. She may not even be testing you, but you can fail anyways if you overreact.

"She didn't have my number, so she may have not known it was me calling, which was why she screened it, but she should know it was me by now and have called back."

She knows it was you.

"My question is do I just wait for her to call/text, and forget about her if she doesn't, or should I call/text her again?"

what do the laws of self respect dictate?

"I'm inclined to do the latter, though I was thinking of sending her a text along the lines of "So you often give guys your number then screen their calls?" But phrase it in a way that it sounds like I'm joking. Maybe add a "haha" to the end (I hate doing that though)?"

Please dont fkn do that...

"Any help would be much appreciated."

Here goes...
You pretty much answered your own question in the topic. "She screened my call, what now?". Why not just be honest with yourself about your intentions here: You KNOW deep inside that a girl who screens your calls is not worth your time. You KNOW that by reacting in any way to this, it will only show your own neediness. You said it yourself that you dont feel right sending smth like that ("I hate doing that though").

The reality is your ego has been hurt. This isnt like some great love story, you just met the girl. So you are attaching importance because you want to preserve your ego. Your first reaction is to send her a text or something, but you know damned well it wont accomplish anything. The urge your feeling is normal. We all have an ego, but what makes a man great is being able to detach from that ego and see things clearly.

We learn all kinds of lines and tactics to get girls but these are all band-aids. They merely cover up the problem without really solving it and THAT my dear friend is the saddest sham of the community.

Solution time

Ask yourself this: is she really all that important to my overall happiness? Obviously the answer is hell no. Delete her number. Where is your self respect mate?! You need to figure out what behaviors you are willing to accept and not accept from a woman/friends/family. No woman respects a man that doesnt respect himself. Get rid of this habit of sending needy texts or overthinking things that just dont deserve any thought. A man does NOT have time to obsess over a girl he isnt fucking.

Delete her phone number. Move on. Get used to it... Nothing is 100% sure in life, just enjoy the probabilities.

Love and lots of it
TheMack

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"So I need to text her today. Clock's ticking."

Get rid of the word need. Besides for food and air, you need very little. You sure as hell do NOT need to text her. Ever.
Yes, the clock is ticking... the clock of life. What have you accomplished? Have you worked to make your world a better place? What will you be remembered for? trust me that answering these questions are much more attractive to a woman than trying to figure out the best voicemail to send her.

"I was thinking "I was sure you would have returned my phone call, but despite the fact that you didn't, I still want to get together. I'm busy this weekend, but I think we should see each other next week."'
"I think the above is a reasonable message to send. It portrays confidence, a social life, and there's no asking for anything. Just expressing myself."

Your message does not portray confidance, it portrays low self-esteem. Does James Bond call up girls and ask why they havnt called or is he too busy saving the world to even notice? It doesnt portray a social life, it betrays that you have nothing better to do than sit by your phone and hope she calls. It doesnt portray confidence, it betrays that you have no other girls in your life and cant let this one go.

"No matter what I think of saying, I'm having trouble making it sound like anything but "I'm into you more than you're into me", which isn't good. "

Now you are being honest with yourself.

Let it go bro... Work on yourself. Eliminate neediness. Its a weakness mate!

TheMack

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Wait a few days, call her again. If she doesn't answer, next her.

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Pretty little girls, so used to getting your way. Along comes a man who challenges you, and suddenly you don't know what to say.

Skip that bullshit and next her.

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