first things first
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we've been talking for about 4 months... it would be only a matter of time before we have sex.
This is antithetical, there is a prime average number of hours of building attraction , rapport, and comfort before the optimum time for getting more intimate. You have surpassed this tiem period in spades, do not do this shit in the future. You are not building attraction you are building affection and friendship.
High risk aka hail mary shit I use for problem cases
"Hey good to hear from you, I really need to eat some quality vagina"
All girls get mad/upset when I send this shit to them, but a surprising number end up falling for it after token complaints.
or try this one after she texts you to hang out as study buddys and back pat recipient
" Id love to hang out with you but I cant stop thinking about fucking you so hard for hours, too big of a chance to risk!"
Your fairly much already toast as you surmised so at least you recognize that.