Hey guys,

this question has been on my mind for a while now and I want you to help me getting better at this!!

I know some girls are flaky and for some unknown reason you might not see her again after the initial approach, but I'm having a hard time figuring out if I'm too aggressive or not enough! Is it that I'm doing too much (txting her at a 3-4 day interval) or that I'm not doing enough (not pushing for the D2 just when I txt her for the first time).

After opening the girl, I really focus on trying to DHV by covering a large scope and then connecting with her on things we both share so to have a pretext to see her again (going to a coffeeshop or any restaurant we both enjoy).

I'd like to clear out of my mind the incertitude of what "tempo" I have to choose!! Generally, how do you guys do this? Do you have any skills you've developed through time? or is there never a way of getting rid of this unless getting more # and moving on to the next one faster?

thx!

My text game just revolves around shooting the shit with girl without outcome. I actually do this when I am bored.

But for day 2's, you set them up on the approach. Easiest way to do it is to:
1. find what you both like to do in common and do that together.

2.Or while building comfort, you can throw in something you really enjoy doing and take her there with you.

3.or is to ask if she comes to the place where you met her at often, and if she says yes, just shoot her a text when you go there saying "hey dork! going to XXXXXXXX, if you there, come and say hi


Option 3 is best when you go to the same place often and she does also. But you should be going there to do your thing and not for her. And that text is really low investment and non needy.