ok so i started off very strong with this girl built attraction and comfort all that stuff, before she would let me touch her and she would hit me playfully, i asked her on a date and she said yes, that day i told her i couldnt and we planned for a differnt day unfourtuanatly that day was booked with finals and so she couldnt go so i sugested friday and she said yes. friday came and she didnt go to school because alot of classes were canceled that day, i didnt call her up cause i didnt want to seem desperate. i planned on talking to her normaly on monday and asking her out again on wed because i only go to school on mon wed and fridays, i talked to her wed and she was very stand offish but friendly she didnt let me put my arm around her but would hit me playfully, i feel that i am entering friend zone and want out bad because i am a relationship kind of guy and she is real quality. idc if i lose her though but i want to learn from this experience. im a little unpatient with these kind of things so wed i was going to ask her out agin and if she makes an excuse i was just going to say fuck it and say to her i dont like to play games and im a fun guy. i think you might be really cool to hang out with so i would like to show you a fun time and see if you are as cool as i think you are, now lets go out friday what do you think or should i just drop her to gain her

escalate! be direct, confident, if she knows that you're needy, desperate and stuff, you'll raise her value and lower yours. ask her out, no excuses. escalate hard and fast, if she resists, just smile and don't say anything. if the rejection wasn't verbalized, it never happened! read 60yoc, it made me realize THE TRUTH! hopefully this helps you ;D