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@ Ruggedized
I've thought about that too ... But its not a very big place and its a 12pm to 12am party - chances are I do bump into her . If not - I'll continue gaming other girls and I'm going to have to try organise another meet with this one, but she might flake again ?!
I also don't want to msg her and say ill be there and we must meet up , because ill just look needy and guarenteed all the other guys will do that .
IF i don't bump into her , and If she flakes the next hook up , I seriously feel like calling her out on it ! Like wtf is going on - ? But that could either blow me out completely or it could seal the deal ?!
Use a pivot if you have one in the club. Or when your saying hi stop mid sentence and go and talk to a) your pivot hb 8 or higher, or b) a set you've already opened earlier.
For example:
You meet her
You: hi hb10 how's...... Jesus is that Mandy over there I haven't seen her in ages, I'll catch you in a bit hb10.
Hb10: er...ok bye.
This should be more effective if you actually go to kiss her on the cheek and stop before you excecute the move, as if you just saw something better and have discarded the hb10. This will put you in control from the beginning.
Then just re enter the set as if nothing happened. How many of the other blokes in the bar would do that to her, none.