So I met this girl about 3 weeks ago at a club meeting in college. We were playing pool and there was one really creepy guy constantly hitting on her and asking for her number (to which she straight up told him no). I came in, "rescued" her from the creepy guy - ran some smooth game and got her number. Since then we went on one date the next day and after that we have been in text game and she is extremely responsive but always busy and we have not arranged a second date.

Here's a brief synopsis of our conversations:
Me: Hey me and a friend are getting kbbq on Monday night, wanna go? Were leaving around 7 (previously found out that she had never been to kbbq)
Girl: Hey Flyingsmurf! Monday nights my roommate and me have dinner together. Have fun though
Me: haha don't you want to have some fun and try something new?? besides, I'm payin
Girl: lol that's so sweet! I already promised my roommate that we'd have dinner Monday though Sorry
Me: No worries, ur loss haha
(4 days later)
Me: But yeah if ur ever free one night just let me know. Id be glad to take you. If not, no big deal either way =)
Girl: That's so sweet, I'll let you know
(4 days later)
Me: Hey, I'm not doing anything Sunday night if you want to try again for kbbq.
(1 day later)
Girl: My roommate and floormate wanted to go see a movie then did you go to [club] yesterday, btw?
Me: Yeah I did, but it was kinda boring. Me and [friend] just messed around the whole time.
(1 day later)
Girl: Oh really? [bs bs bs]
Me: Nah it was the same as usual. Why you so busy all the time haha?

So yeah, what do you think? Is this girl just being nice and is really busy, or is it just her making excuses and I should move on?

thanks,
-Flyingsmurf

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In fairness mate I think you committed yourself way to much in the text by saying your free whenever. Looks a bit desperate (sorry to say)

You put the ball in her court and she's got control. Thing about game we need to keep that control or else they end up calling the shots and that's when they start using the game on us.

I'm fresh to the game world and starting to learn from my old mistakes. I starting to think its about time women started impressing ME not the other way round!!

The old saying 'treat em mean keep em keen''

hopefully things go well buddy

I think you should try to move on. It doesn't mean it's over but you should still try.

You've dlved quite a bit already. Saying the club was boring was a bad move. You should always be having fun and bringing excitement to any situation your in. Also your asking too much, should just start saying "hey i'm picking you up at 8:00 so be ready!" *girls bullshit excuse* " I insist!" girls need some convincing sometimes...
Stop texting/calling her as well... force her to spend time with you in real life if she wants to talk to you. Here'es what I would do in your situation. Wait for her to message you

Next time she hits you up... Girl: "some bs here".... You " hey i'm taking you to blabla this week" Girl " bullshit excuse "... ignored (3 days pass) girl again " hi!!! " you "hey there! Your free sunday right? i want to go here and i'm taking you!" Girl *bullshit excuse* ... ignored again ( 40 minutes later) girl * what about this day? *.... you * are you treating??* girl * lol no * you * how about this 3rd day *....

Thanks for the great advice! She never messaged me again so I didn't really get the chance to apply it, I just moved on. Definitely will avoid saying "I'm free whenever", that worked against me. I'm guessing that the time aspect worked against me as well, it seems that the longer things stay in text game the less of a chance I have of seeing her again. Maybe I just need to keep the texts lighter and not keep asking to meet up?

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