Hi,

Last week I slept 2 times at some girl's place and we really enjoyed ourselves.. we are texting all and this week she slept at my place.. however, she is in to doing everything except for really doing it.

I find this rather annoying so I asked her what the problem was.. then she replied that she really liked me so much, that she was afraid of losing as soon as we will do it.

I tried to convincing her in every way that this would not be the case and I told her that there was a bigger chance of losing me, if I had to wait much longer.. but still she wasn't convinced..

do you guys have any advice on how to tackle this?

Doing it? Spit it out! Are you talking about sex?

Look up how to deal with last minute resistance, buyers remorse, etc. There's TONS of info out there about this.

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Someone get this nigga a book on LMR. Again, LOGIC DOESN'T WORK IN THE BEDROOM! Don't convince her to death, ACTIONS!!!!

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Tell her "cool, I like that and I think we should take our time too." This will do a lot for building her comfort. She's testing you to make sure you're not the type of guy that's going to use her, likely because she's been used in the past. Don't try to convince her to sleep with you, just reassure her that you think she has the right idea. Then when you guys are fooling around escalate slowly to the point where you're banging. It's better to put in work and have it take a little longer than you wanted, then to have her think you're a jerk and lose her completely.

Made it finally happen about a week ago, on the fifth night I was seeing her.

What you should do is freeze her out a little bit.

Dont totally ignore her because you may risk losing her, and you may not want that.

But be different. Dont do the EXACT things you would normally do before the conversation of her being afraid of losing you.

Pull back a little and she will wonder why you are pulling back and try to pull closer to you and fuck you. Assuming this is why things have changed.

Women like a challenge. Dont be a wuss and still kiss her ass if she wont fuck.

You need to have the attitude as if she wont fuck me ill find another one out the 3 billion that will.

Women love this next attitude.

Right now you are showing her not so dominant traits by trying to reason with her.

She wants to fuck you, but because of past experiences she is scared the same thing will happen.

But listen to her..When you have her alone with you, kiss her, and then go from there.
Dont worry about "what she wants" because she really doesnt know.
Of course, dont force yourself but dont ask..JUST BE SPONTANEOUS AND INITIATE IT!
Good luck