Met this HB 7.5 natural blonde 28 (lets call her Steph) who works as a hostess at a popular club. - was quite intoxicated but was doing the right things.
Was chatting to this HB 9 at the time, who was not interested but obviously looked good and validated me.

Anyway chatted to Steph for a bit she seemed keen our faces were really close when we spoke and made it clear that I was in control as i pulled back from kissing her a coulple times. Kissed a bit, played with the back of her head ect, got her number. Then escorted her to the toilet then she started talking to some bouncer - she worked at this club so new alot of people.

Anyway didn't really see her much the rest of the night, she seemed to be talking to a few guys here n there and flirting but i was unfazed, i was doing my own thing.

She mentioned at one point that she wanted to leave, I asked her where she lived and offered her a ride home (maybe too forward )

Anyway I ended up leaving and this is where we pick up the texts...


Me: (Midnight) - Hey its Newport. If u want a ride lemme know.

Me: (1AM) - Good to meet you heading off

Her: (Noon the next day) - Hey good meeting you too haha, I feel so sick today!

ME: (12.40pm) I felt very seedy this morning haha. Was a great night

HER: (1.18pm) It was...from what I can remember anyway lol

ME: (1.31pm) What u got on this weekend. I think u said u were working at THE CLUB sat night?

HER: (1.35) SOME LONG MESSAGE ABOUT WHERE SHE WORKS AND THEN GOES CLUBBING AFTER. Then asks me if im going to the races on saturday?

ME: (2PM): kim kardashian isn't going so no point really

HER: (2.42pm): Haha very funny...plans otherwise?




And that's where i've left it. i have exams next week then im free as a bird. Don't really wanna do the whole text thing (though it has worked for me in the past). I am assuming her interest level is moderate so maybe just send some vague messages and call her next week to meet up?

Any thoughts would be much appreciated.

Maybe keep up the cocky funny with "Yes i have plans to take over the world" or similar. Can you overdo cocky funny?

I find that girls' response to cocky (through sms) differs quite greatly. A positive response is usually an attempt on her behalf to be joking and cocky back. Her last message though seemed if anything dismissive.

You don't know her that well yet so maybe play it safe. I'd be keen to let her know you're busy with exams and other small things in between, and that she'll just have to wait till after you're finished, to catch up.

You're coming across as busy (girls like this), and you're not lowering your value by saying anything like "im keen to catch up after exams". You come across as the one in control and thats how it should be.