I recently number closed a woman, but she didn't answer either of my calls which were spaced 3 days apart. We had a good time walking and talking until I number closed. I think I gave off the vibe that all I wanted was the number and may have closed the set too quickly after I put it into my phone and confirmed that it was hers. This was during the day.

Can you guys give me some advice on how to comfortably close a set after receiving a woman's number?

Thanks in advance.

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"Simple. Escalate, if she's into you, she will escalate with you, if not, you will know soon enough." - SexAddict911

in my book....women flake
u can collect numbers all day long and have everyone of em flake on you.
Ive noticed especially in the states, when i was there, women will give up digits real easy but consistantly flake...unless
well unless you really work some game on them and get atleast a kiss close before u ask for digits.
seriously its easy to get digits
and its easy for the girl to flake
its not so easy to get a kiss from a random girl..this takes some finess..im talking about a real kiss by the way,, not a peck oin the cheek...
girls flake a hell of a lot less when u show u got some real finess
and thats the difference between collecting dead numbers and getting live women.
to much bs is held up around getting digits...getting digits is piss easy...a woman is not usually impressed by a man who does something that is piss easy.

I'm convinced that this is more complex,though. Plenty of people get called/texted back without kiss closing.

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"Simple. Escalate, if she's into you, she will escalate with you, if not, you will know soon enough." - SexAddict911

Hey man,

1)State intent

2)escalate (if you can get to sex without a phone number that is probably better she can't flake if she never leaves your presence)

3)ask her to meet instead of for a phone number

4)get her to verbalize she wont flake on you/isn't a flaky girl/she wants you to have her number (any of these are helpful)

in the end it all comes down to your value in her eyes vs. how invested in you she is,


Girls have trouble dealing with tension and hurting peoples feelings (at least in person, and when they are alone, sometimes they feel safe and secure in group settings and let the inner bitch be revealed depends on the girl)

so a girl will give you her phone number instead of outright rejecting you, it is easier for her to just not pickup the phone or respond/not meet you, then it is for her to outright reject you in person, escalation/showing intent should help you weed out these wastes of time, if a girl is not attracted to you (you have low value in her eyes, *ugly/not cool/doesn't have cool lifestyle*) then you will get these flakes, if the girl is on the fence, and sort of likes you but isn't sure, your best bet is making her invest more in you (verbalize she wont flake/will meet, get her to kiss you), comforting her and getting to know her better will also help with girls that are on the fence, or are anxious about being used or played (if you were giving off player vibes)

sometimes girls are actually busy also, there is never a for sure 100% reason to tell why a girl is flaking, could be a million things, and you can never fully eliminate them, but you can just get better and do your best

GOOD LUCK

Thanks alot, pumpington.

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"Simple. Escalate, if she's into you, she will escalate with you, if not, you will know soon enough." - SexAddict911