Hey, I met this girl through a friend on friday and we have been texting since and shes admitted to her mate and me that she likes me. We have arranged a date this saturday but shes shy, I am shy. its my first ever date, its also her first ever date. What do you do on them. how should I act etc.

I have had quite a few girlfriends in the past, all long term. I got with them because they were already friends and I guess im good at getting out of the friends zone, so we never needed to date. Also I have never asked a girl out, they have always asked me because like I said I am quite shy and they all told me they got sick of not being asked so they asked me instead hahaha. Now you might be wondering how that happened, im not entirely sure but I have been told by many people I am easily a 8/10 and really funny/sweet without realizing it. just got low confidence.

So now with a bit of background knowledge. What should I do on this date. I barely know the girl, which i guess is normal. Again i must stress she is very shy.

thanks.

Just try to make things as comfotable as you can. Tell stories, be funny , ask questions about her , just dont let awkwardyl silent. As far as they confidence thing , remember if you werent the shit she wouldnt have agreed to go out with you.

try an opinion opener , JUST BREAK THE ICE

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Confidence and comfort can work both ways; especially with a first date! As soon as one of you detects that the other is nervous, you're probably both going to end up nervous. This only changes with experience, or ensuring ONE of you is comfortable. If she sees you relaxed and comfortable, she'll be more inclined to feel the same.

So, best tip is to go somewhere familiar, somewhere you think is a good place. That will most likely relax you, and in turn relax her.

Good luck!