Hey guys, this is my first post here. I'm just beginning this sarging stuff with my friend. The city I live in is quite small - about 60 000 people, so not too much to work with but what can you do.

Anyways, there's this chick, I'd say she's an HB8.5, with whom I've been going out every once in a while for coffee. The thing is, you see, that I'm really not sure if she's interested or if I'm falling for the LJBF zone. Actually, I'm quite cool with that, but of course if it could be taken higher, I'm up for it.

It's nearly always her who's asking me to hang out with her, so she definitely enjoys her time with me. So far there's been no kino (aside from the first "date" where we hugged) and I think that's one of the biggest problems. My body language is fine I guess, leaning back, talking slow, not being too interested etc, but I feel it all needs to be escalated or it's LJBF for me for sure. It's just too casual - two friends hanging out.

So any ideas? Should I use some routines, like a trust test or something to gain the kino I feel it would need? I know this chick believes in tarot readings and shit, maybe it could be used for advantage? Or is it simply too late for this to escalate anywhere?

Lets be honest here you're not content with just being her friend you need to let her know how you feel about and not fear rejection otherwise you'll just beat yourself up day after day wondering what coulda shoulda been

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I guess you're right. But I do not have a crush on her (no really), I just want to see where this is going.

I don't know, maybe I should just take here someplace else besides coffee for a change or something.