| Soooo....
I know this is dangerous territory, and that I am a fool. However this happened a couple of months back and I cringe every time I think about it and want to fix it.
Here is the story. I'm at university its not unusual to just hook up with someone without really saying a word plus I was very drunk so if I'm honest getting into her bed there was basically no game involved I'm tall and reasonably well built and she was probably wasted (HB9 Blond, blue eyes, petite the works). We just fooled around back at hers, lets just say that the time of the month was not appropriate for much to happen. BTW she tried to throw me out, so I just looked at her said no and rolled over to sleep... she was pissed.
So morning came round, she was really awkward, I guess it was a bit like "o fuck theres that guy i tried to throw out last night he is still in my bed". I ended up with just natural game, I tend to be good conversationalist. But I was asking all the questions so I started to get her doing all the talking and asking me questions things were going well.
It lead upto a moment where I was kind of joking that I had her in my pocket and that she was in love with me. Of course she straight up denied it...I stopped mid sentence, made out with her stopped prematurely and said something like "I think i got you where I want you". She was playfully angry initially and then for the rest of the morning she was all over me. I left, I was really hung over, my head was about to explode. We exchanged numbers.
After this I unconsciously decided it was time to go AFC, big style.
Added her on Facebook (even though she had looked at my profile while i was in her room), sent her a text after 3 days that said "you out tonight?" (she didn't reply), then saw her in a club a couple of days after that, trying not to make it awkward myself I went over to her, I hadn't thought of anything to say. I stalled, she couldn't really hear what I said, she laughed secretly with her friend. I ran away.
My girl and guy friends who don't even know about game just said "what the fuck were you thinking?"
I haven't even tried to get in contact since I have a feeling she wouldn't both replying.
So where do I stand? Whats the next move? What can I do? Do I still have a chance?
Any feedback would be great. I know this girl, I need to get over a weird bump and close.
Wilheim.
Last edited by Wilheim on Tue Jul 26, 2011 5:36 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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