I met this girl on saturday. She gave me her number and she asked me for my facebook.
We texted something funny on sunday (2-3 texts). On monday, we chatted on facebook and

ME: "hey, lets meet tomorrow for a cup of coffee at xxx."
HER: "why not (then we continued to chat... at before the end of the conversation) I let u know tonight if I will be able tomorrow".

Later... (text messages)

HER: "Oh, I'm sorry! I cant! I have a very important meeting at the university at 12.00! I'm sorry!"
ME: "Very disappointed! Lol when are u free (nickaname)?"
HER: I really dont know now, I've another exam this week... Maybe in the weekend if you are free to... Are you?" **
ME: "Ok for the weekend but I deserve more than a coffee! I'd say an aperitivo plus an interesting and stimulating conversation "
HER: "And I think it's a good idea! have a good night!!"

** the exams are real because when I met her, she told me that she's gonna have 3 exams this week.

I didnt text her today. Now, I would like to go out on saturday.
When should I text her?
What should I text her?
I would like to re-engage tomorrow or on thrusday... what do u think?

Thank you very much for helping!!

Hey man congrats on getting FB and number. A tip that helps a lot on framing is to don't ask her when she is available. Be like I can met on Tuesday, lets have some wine and have some fun.

I know from experience; before, during and after finals are very emotional for everyone. Sex is great relief from stress.

Depending on how comfortable you feel about inviting this girl over for a 'movie' would be a great move.

If not; bring your friends out and tell her to bring her friends.

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Make sure she knows, you are busy and need to fit HER into YOUR busy schedule. instead of asking when shes free, tell her when your free.

Thank you man! I'm organizing a party at my apartment (we're gonna party on the terrace): home made hamburgers and hot dogs plus a lot of beers. There will be me and 5-6 friends (girls and guys). After this party, we're gonna go out (pub crawl).
Should I invite her and her friends to the party or after the party?
When should I text her and what to text her??
Thanks for the advice man, I will be the busy one

Pub crawl ... It's like going on a whole bunch of dates. Tell her to bring her friends so she feels safe

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Perfect, what to text her and when? Should I invite them at my house or just for pub crawl?

I'd have to disagree with the above statement.. don't invite her directly to the pub crawl. You want one more date/something in there so you can f-close at the pub crawl.

You should definitely invite her to the pub crawl, but do it AT the coffee date. Cancel the aperitivo , the dinner is too formal/date-esq. You can't downgrade to a pub crawl from there.

I would say, find out when her last exam (most likely Friday) is, and get a coffee (or something fast) with her right afterwards, and then invite her to the pub crawl (hopefully its Saturday).

If the pub crawl is friday, then you have no choice but to invite her via text, in which case you should use one of the below openers. The thing is, though, she'll be tired from all the exams/the hectic week and you are very likely to get rejected for any late friday night ...

"OMG!!! You'll never guess what just happened!?" -- Follow with a SHORT story that can end with you implying it reminder you of her, and inquire about the coffee date.

(best for a couple days later, like thursday) "Okay, I texted you. What are your next two wishes? "

"Made you look ..how goes the studying? Coffee break? "

"!! Have you seen the news!?" her: "No, what happened?" "Aliens are abducting all the sexy people, and I just wanted to say bye..." Easy to follow up with a "we should see each other one last time" or something, keep a joking tone.

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