hey guys another topic i need a bit of help with. i have this friend who iv always been into but both of us were in relationships, i ended my relationship a few of months ago and last month she ended hers

i wouldnt call us close friends but we talk every now and then on facebook or whatever and when we meet each other on nights out we get along great and shes very flirty with me (always hugging me, holding my hand when we walk through the clubs or when were talking one on one). the problem is shes probably the best looking girl i know and because of this now that shes single words gotten out and guys are always trying it on with her, if you blow out one, another comes along almost immediately. even though she has rejected every person whos tried while iv been there isolating her and properly building sexual tension is incredibly hard to do now becuase of the constant flow of drunk people hitting on her, whereas before it was easy but pointless as we were both in commited relationships and just having a bit of fun

what advice would you guys have in this situation? shes not the type who would leave the club without her friends and come on an instant date somewhere leaving her friends behind. what should i do? i feel like i definitely have a good chance, just dont know if i have the right tools

thanks
shtuffy

With this I would say that kino is key. Seems like you have already established some comfort with it (hugging and holding hands). Just keep escalating it as much as you can next time you're out with her. Escalate to the point where you're holding onto the back of her head as if you're going to kiss her each time you lean in to say something to her. Do this and then back up and talk to her just as if she was just a friend again. Then escalate once more and repeat.

What you talk to her about is probably not all that important as long as all of this kino is going on. Just talk slowly and seductively when you are near her and dont talk about your ex's.

After repeating a few times, be on the look out for IOI's and it should be apparent when you can go for the k-close the next time you get in close to talk to her.

As far as guys interrupting you and hitting on the girl - I usually just ignore it. If she doesnt know how to ignore it and lets the guy hit on her for a while just walk away and grab a drink or something. She might say something like "why didn't you save me from that guy" and you can just tell her how much it ammuses you to see her try to carry on a conversation with a random guy.

Or if you have a camera, you can say to the guy "oh I'm glad you're here, can you take a picture of me and my girlfriend real quick?". The thought of you two together will cross her mind and you can even throw in a playful neg such as "we do look cute together but it would never work out, we would argue all the time and I would always win" or "we look cute together, maybe you are my future ex-wife".

Hope this helps - as I am fairly new to the game and this is my first advice given on this forum, any critique is appreciated.

@Travis1987: amazing advice dude, you've answered my questions even though I haven't asked them yet, lol. Besides, it sounds like shtuffy could use this material as well.

very solid advice my man thanks ill definitely try escalating the kino a bit more. i know if i can just get her alone and away from her friends the rest will be a piece of cake going out tonight so hopefully she will be out and ill get to work