About to finish college and looking to get into some serious game, thinking about starting a blog which i'll keep updated by posting regularly about my PUA experiences. Hopefully giving some people useful tips that i pick up from my experiences. So....

I've know a hb9 for a some time now, been out a couple of times for a few drinks where both of us brought along our groups of friends. When me and hb9 have been out we've been pretty flirty with one another and lots of kino being used by both of us on each other, nothing really lead to anything else and i didn't really want to take it futher as i had my finals coming up and a mountian of work.

So, as my finals are nearly done, I was looking for some advice on a day 2 with this hb9. It is pretty obvious that we like one another so thought well since college is out of the way now lets give some PUA techniques a shot! I've read a few things on here about PUA theories but the advice i'm looking for is;

How to ask her out - do i say lets go on a date or drop it in casually lets get some drinks/food just the two of us, or i was thinking Hey how about we sort us two out and go get/do xxx at xxx on xxx?

And where do we go?

Any advice on how to approach my first PUA situation would be great.

Hmmm... I'd assume that you know a little about what this girl is into, what she likes etc. I'd say her something like: Hey, I heard band ______ is playing at ____ and I have two tickets (any event could be used that she would enjoy). Do you know anybody cool that would be interested in coming out to see band _____?

Event ideas: art expos (tickets are usually cheap), fund raisers (play the 'sensitive' guy), parades, basically any sort of public gathering.

What do you think?

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Now that school's out - are you going to be able to see her or are you off to another city for an internship or something? Obviously if you're not in the same place it'll be more difficult.

I'll assume you are both in the same town for the summer - My advice is make something happen before you ask her to a formal dinner. Invite her out with everyone next weekend and resume the flirty/kino vibe you have going - but this time make something happen. Given what you say about your interaction, it shouldn't be tough to kiss her. THEN take her out.

Generally, it is way easier to build things guadually. Not that asking her out straight up is necessarily a bad thing, because it's a totally fine approach, but getting her out for a couple drinks w friends, picking up where you left off, escalating, etc is way more stepwise and natural and will lead to much less resistance and more success - it makes it easier for her to say yes because it's all baby steps. Once you get that vibe going again, asking her to dinner will feel natural too and won't catch her off guard. You'll see tons of posts on here about how first dates are better if you can do something interactive instead of dinner- it's really the same concept.