So this girl is a freind's SPAM.
We met and we were flirting from the get go. She was clearly into me. We crossed paths a number of times but i knew she had a boyfreind so i didn't push it.
We met un a pub with a bunch of freinds. A total AFC was hitting on her hard so she asked me to be her "fake" boyfreind. So i milked the oportunity short of kissing her.
Next week, we met up again at the same pub. This time her boyfreind had cheated on her. So i escalated and got a kiss. We then decided to back to her flat. Their was me, my freind ( a lesbian) and an other guy who we didnt really know but who was left without money, a ride or a place to stay.
She had her hands all over me, under my shirt, it was on. At the flat we waited for the others to fall asleep and we went back at.
Then out of nowhere she starts crying and talk about some very heavy stuff and nothing about her boyfreind.
So i comfort her, i listen i hug her... It goes on for a long time with short pauses. In one of those pauses she puts her hand on my pants, on the money spot. I wasnt even thinking about sex at that point, just trying to deal with everything she was saying, so i wasnt hard. I took her hand of and told her their's enough emotions for one night. a few min laters she went back to crying. I stabelized the situation at 6am. I told her to go to bed and i was going home. She said she wented me to sleep with her (forgot the exact terms she used). I thought it was on. I can say no once, but not twice. She starts undressing i do the same, she gets in bed and turns around. i cuddle up to her and start kissing her. She tells me she doesnt want to cheat on her boyfreind and just wanted me to hold her. I can tell you, falling asleep was really not easy in this situation.

I m happy i pulled her hand the first time. If i were hard i don't know if i would have had the strength to do so. But i can't figure out why she froze me out the second time. Should i have been more aggressive? it wouldn't have felt right at the moment. Were did i mess up?

i know it's a bit long, thank you for taking a time to read this and giving it a thought.

Resistance at the last minute... When this happens you stop chasing and get her to chase you.

When she resists, do something like stopping, sitting up in bed, turning on the lights and start a DHV story