Do you guys cuddle after sex?? Do you still try to play the game etc??

I feel i might have been too full on after sex the other night (im new to the game)
We chatted till ike 5/6ish and basically acted as if we.d known each other for ages.. cuddling, kissing, kissing her hand forehead etc (bit more sex lol 4 times in total:))

It is just how i like to be and me being myself!!

Is it ok at this point or should i have pulled away abit??

How are you guys after sex??

So you're asking if you should be us/one of us instead of being you? I'll let you tackle the answer to that one.

By cuddling and doing the talk etc... You are creating affection, and that works both ways. You are makeing her feel good (and loved) but you might also start having feelings for her (that could become a problem if you just want to have sex).

I don't see any problem AS LONG AS YOU CONTINUE BEING SEXUAL and having sex. Otherwise you will lose the attraction and sexual tension and you will only get affection,(Holding hands, watching movies, etc...) but no sex.

I don't think you have to change the way you are, you just need to be careful. You don't want to have only affection and no sex.

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4 times is champ. If she went to work (or wherever) with her legs bowed the next day, you did you job right.

Cuddling is ok. Women like cuddling, but they don't like men who admit they like cuddling. Maybe they want to feel like they make us do it? Men may never truly understand. If you like it, do it. Try to remain in a more dominant position when cuddling, although you may prefer that anyways (I do).

Talking all night like schoolgirls? Well I guess that depends on the situation. Is this your first lay with her and how long have you known her? If it's your gf of 6 months, that seems pretty normal. If you just met then wth man?!? Men's bodies produce a chemical that makes them want to sleep after an orgasm, and women come to expect this. It may piss them off and they may say that they wished we didn't, but you can't really argue with instinct. Fighting it to chit-chat all night sounds a little AFC. You did get more play as a result, but waking up horny next to a naked chick has the same basic effect.

to jaminv..

i just met her (met and in her room within like 10 mins) i did feel like i was being bit AFC but i am very new to this. I do like to cuddle and be 'lovey dovey' so i guess my question is how to be dominent with it? I agree with the wanting to sleep i usually am staight asleep but i didnt this time (was very drunk) and thought itd be nice to know something about her as i pretty much only knew her name lol (which i forgot so pretended to be intersted in an essay she had just written which had her name on it)

just dont want to scare her off or future girls off by being clingy after sex