So I invited two hot chicks to this party last weekend. Chick one is a girl I've been talking too for while via phone and text. She has been really difficult to get a day2 organized because she's hung up on her ex, but she finally accepted this offer to the party. Chick two is a feisty rugby chick with a smoking hot body who I met and kiss closed the night before. (By the way this chick was really into me.)

So anyways I invite both of these chicks over to the party and to my amazement, both chicks know each other pretty well. I am shocked and little uneasy at first but I play it cool and pretend nothing is wrong. I talk to both chicks giving equal attention and flirting. Then out of the blue, while I'm talking to some chode, the two chicks peace out of the party without saying a word to me. Now at first, I'm like, fuck, I totally fucked this up. I might as well have loaded the gun and shot myself in the foot. I was pretty drunk, so I let the situation go.

So the next day I wake up with a super hangover and pissed as hell at the outcome of the night. I thought to myself, both chicks are pissed at me because they thought I was trying to pin one against the other in attempt to win me over. So I text both chicks and tell them I'm sorry and that it wasn't cool of me. Like a beta I shot myself in the foot again. What did apologizing convey? Probably that I am guilty. Now the chicks probably think I am a dick when in reality I didn't do anything wrong... I was just trying to have some fun with these chicks and maybe hook up with rugby chick. (My target babe)

So give me your advice guys. What would you have done differently and more importantly, how can I recover with rugby chick? I really want to make this right. What's the next step?

Honestly, its never too late for anything.

Never volunteer an apology. if you give one, make it 3/4 apology 1/4 backhanded. Work them both seperate, otherwise you'll have a hard time.
just stop talking to both of them for a few days in this case, id say the golden number is three, then call day four. remember not to interrogate, try not to ask questions when you reinitiate. ignore that that night ever happened. remember, you were drunk right? but dont use that as an excuse.

excuses are like assholes. everyone has one.

J_Rye, what do you mean by, "3/4 apology 1/4 backhanded"? Thanks for the input, but I already texted rugby chick and said hey whats up. Does that change anything?

hey m8 what was that excuse for?
well u had known both of them for a while and invited them both over and had fun with the people there? i dont get the point of the excuse^^

nah nvm well the situation was a bit crappy i mean u invited both targets and u said u gave them both the same amount of interest and investion. who of that girls was ur actual target u should have given one of them more then the other depends on the target of course.

but i still would mind if they left the party without saying anything but i would be kinda upset and let them know... because that behavior is kinda disrespectful and no girl would do that to me. i think u are in that LJBF because the just teamed up together and left

So u either should have isolated and had a wing to help u or played them both out on each other^^


regards ac3

Thanks for the tip hardc0re. I was irrational the morning I sent the text and the apology was unnecessary I think. I guess I apologized for inviting them both.

I tried texting rugby chick the other day and played it off as nothing happened and continued doing what I was doing (what I did to attract her in the first place), but she never responded to my text.

It's not like we were going out, or engaged to be married. I hadn't even hooked up with this other chick that she knows. I don't know why she would be unresponsive? I just wanted to connect with this chick. Did she really feel betrayed? A tad frustrating, just want to learn from this experience.

I figure I'll try one more time and call her and try to get her to have a talk with me. All I want to do is clear the situation up and if she still is bent out of shape, no biggie, I'll move on.

What's the best way to get her to call me back or at least text me?

Leave voice mail, telling her I need to tell her something?

And if she does talk with me, what's the best way to play it out?

I'M ALL EARS FOR ADVICE. HIT ME WITH ANYTHING YOU GOT.

I would freeze her out for a while and then either text her or call her...

just act like nothing happend(nothing happend tough^^) and be the pua u use to be...
i dont think that is an special situation i would just game her as always. correct me if im wrong masters^^


regards ac3