Hey guys,

So I met a girl about 3 weeks ago and have been posting my progress as I have been moving a long. I met her at a club, HB8/9. Got her number, went on 2 dates so far. She seems fun and interesting, and I still am curious about getting to know her more and playing it out. From our interactions Im certain she has fun and loves spending time with me also. We text very regularly and talk on the phohne a couple of times a week. However, one thing I have noticed, is that I always have to initiate the texting. She is never the one to do so. If I dont text her, I wont hear from her. I talked to her last night (phone - Sunday) and plan not to contact her today (monday) and Tues atleast to see if she decides to initiate contact. I want to use this as a gauge of her level of interest.

Another thing I wanted to ask is, she is an attractive woman, as such she goes on many dates, which does not intimidate me or bother me at all. And so far, I have been able to stand out, "I've never met a guy like you" blah blah.

One thing I want to escalate is physically. I still have not been able to K close. On the second date, I tried to escalate physically with kino, hand touching etc. She does not like PDA which makes it tougher. How do I make her want me physically? One thing I have stacked up against me already is she goes for guys who are 6 feet tall usually. I am trying to break bounds here being 5.7ft tall... I am in great shape, built and toned, so its not like im skinny or something. Any ideas for me guys?

Thanks once again, and you guys rock!

Hey dude.
I haven´t met a girl that called/texted me first because usually they want to be seduced by a man that takes over the controll so it´ unusual that she will call/write you first.

Thats a reason why i dont like texting. You don´t lnow if she will write back. Ofc you don´t know if she will pick up the phone but she doesn´t know why you called her and you are in a better postion if you called her once than writing her and don´t get an answer.

The thing you have to do is to escalte. If you don´t do that you will soon be (or already be) in the LJBF zone. I think you should have enough attraction and comfort for a KC.
Just use some of the KC routines if you feel more comfortable and escalte wherever it will end.
Did she say that? You could have neged her with : oh you think I want to hit on you. How sweet you are :p .

Just ceep cool and don´t care about any shit tests.

I´ve had one which was 3 yeas older than me which prevented her from making out with me. I told her that I don´t care about the age but when she hits 80 and i am 77 i will lookk for another girl that looks exactly like her but is younger.

She is just testing you and wants to see your reaction on her disqualification.

Hope could help. If you still got questions PM me

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Thanks man. Ive been told I should work on my inner game, any tips for me? Thanks

@Joker-Good insight on the texting aspect.

@Jason-This has always puzzled me also:wondering why 95% of the times do I have to initiate texting or calling.

It come down to the level of attraction also.

If she's still in the feeling out stage(which she is),she wont commit nor be too aggressive.

You'd have to do most of the seducing[fine].

If you try freezing her out in order to make her chase and initite first-she wont do it unless she's really into you.

My prob' with your scenario is that it's already date 2 and you havent gone KINO yet!!?

If she's not into PDA-cool!!

You should not be trying to go PDA as if yall are couples.

You need to employ push-pull tactics.

Take hold of her hand for about 1 second.Then playfully push it away.

This is classic push-pull.

What you might've been doing wrong,or contemplating doing,is to be holding her for about a minute.

That's way too long!!

Your KINO should only last 1 second or less.

Dont keep your hand there until she gets discomforted.

And Im still puzzled as to why it's heading on a date 3 and you havent laid this girl yet.

I dont think you have grave inner- game issues.

You just ned to calibrate KINO correctly(timing)and lear to escalate.

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60 Years Of Challange is quite a good book for Inner Game. If you already read it i´ll translate some german-pickup stuff into english because I find more about Inner-Game on the german forums. Just tell me

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I can only give tips due to my experience.

Jokerz, I would appreciate that if you could do that for me.


K-loc,do you have any advice on where I could learn to master some better KINO techniques? Im always trying to improve myself, so would def be down to learn.

Thanks guys

@Jason-I actully mastered KINO from reading the DEL by Vin Dicarlo.

It's based on escalation and how to escalate without rejection most times.

So just google it.The Dicarlo Escalation Ladder(DEL)by Vin Dicarlo.

I stated this over a year ago on this forum:"The DEL has never failed me.

Every girl I employed the DEL on,I laid.100% succes lay rate with it.

You really need to get it going.

Your chances with this girl is way over due.

You're 2 dates in and you havnt even made out with this chicc!!

Move swiftly before the window of opportunity closes and she loses interest.

You only have yourself to blame when this girl eventually NEXTs you for being too slow on pulling the trigger.

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K-loc.. thanks for the advice. But dont worry, she wont nxt me. I already planned on making a move on the next date. I def appreciate all the advice and help man. Keep it coming if you have more.

I just posted some mixed stuff about Inner Game, topic is called The seducers mindset 1/3

Hope you enjoy it

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I can only give tips due to my experience.