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Really like this girl, who I known for two years, she has a boyfriend since 2-3 years but seems like not going good for them.. Didnt manage to do anything with her but cuddled with her two nights in a row last week, she called me a night later and wanted to see me again... obviously attraction, but now we have an exam period for a month and I cant get together with her, when texting her she said she was not gonna do anything during this month... and she has been non-responsive since then.. what should i do? Have I lost my shot?
MORE:
Im in the end of my second year of college in London. There is this girl who goes in my class. During first year we were out quite a lot but I never really connected more than as party friends with this girl. But one of my best friends who also is in our class, a girl, I have been hanging with almost every day since I started, and she is also best friend with this girl I like.
The girl has a boyfriend for 2-3 years now, but he is never with us out, she has this idea about not mixing him with her friends. He is nice though met him a couple of times.. And when she is drunk she always tell too much, like that they have sex like once a week etc. and they don't seem to be that good together.. but she loves him.
All her best friends have said they Really think she should break up with him as she is quite often unhappy and they don't go good together...
Then this second year, most of our friends moved abroad for a year and that made me this girl and my best friend come even closer, she lives about 15 meters from my house and we all hang out many times a week for drinks etc. and we really clicked this year. She has always been very flirty, and more towards now, always talking about sex, girls and stuff with me.
Then last week we were out on Monday, to celebrate last day of lessons, and we were at this pre-party with quite a lot of people and during that the girl who is my friend that "you could easily have sex with her tonight if she is happy etc." so she must had known something I didn't because we had never discussed this before but she knows Im on … Then we went out to a club and to an after party… Then that was abrupt ended and me and the two girls and one more friend went to my place to keep drinking… and suddenly the two others fell asleep, and me and the girl I like ended up listening to music for about 6 hours drinking wine and just had the best time until the sun came up.. We barely kissed, I tried and got slightly a response, but she was in my knee and there was obviously attraction. She dropped both during the night that "I hope this never ends" and the morning after "I would not want to be anywhere else".. Then in the morning we fell asleep, keep in mind up until that there were never anything like this before..
Around lunch when we woke up she asked if she could stay the day in bed, and of course… we stayed close together in bed until the evening when we went to watch a movie with our other friend (the girl), and stayed there over night cuddling in the sofa when watching the movie and sleeping together as well.
I was not sure if I was just imagining this during these days, but then two days later she texted me around midnight with a song, and checked lyres it was something like "I wanna run away with you, and wake up next to you" so we texted some and then she asked to come over, we kept listening to music, drinking wine and she slept here. She was slightly drunk when she texted… i tried kiss her all of the times, but she slightly ducked away except the first night, but then I didnt really think aboiut this either... and there were more people in the room, even though sleeping..
Then i needed to fly out the morning after and just got back on wednesday, and on tuesday while I was away I texted her a song but didn't get a reply.
on Thursday I texted her about just everything, and then if we should go out on drinks this weekend as I was planning to do it as a "date" but that she wouldn't know it, and she was like "lets see, Im planning not drink until exams are over".. is the ball in her hands now?
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