Hey guys,
I am new to game and sorry for my English
This is what happened for me :
I met this 9 hb at a party. changed number and talked 4 hours in 2 day on the phone. she is alittle far from me.The main point was that she told me that she didn't like to have sex on the first date.(It happened for her before and she didn't have good experience about it.)
On the third date, we met each other again We went to resturant and then 2 bars. After 5 hours and talking about all things like sex experience and blah blah, I thought that we were closed enough to have sex. So I kissed her she kissed me back with tounge. and we had foreplay in her car.So I told her I wanted to have sex. She told me lets dicuss about it.
I was pretty sure that she is really in to me. She told me that She really likes me and she doesn't want to lose me. She told me that if I have sex with her on the first date. I'll give her up.(like other guys..)
Well, I couldn't convince to have sex with her on the first date.She gave me some exusse for that. So she agreed to see each other tomorrow again to have sex.
I know I made mistake to offer sex on the first date. But on the fourth day, I called her . she didn't answer me.After half an houar I texted her :: Are you coming here or not?
She texted me back: I can't make it tonite. My friend is visiting from XX.
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I know I made mistake . She didn't call me back. I don't want to show DLV. So I didn't call her today.

So, Any idea what is the best thing to do now ??

Trying to make it quick.

You should have taken her to your home. Watching TV and stuff after you went to the bar with her. It probably was to obvious for her that you want to fuck her. She wants to be seduced by a man.

I would try to set up a new date. Tell her you would like to watch a film with her (plenty of posts for films around here ) than escalte.

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I can only give tips due to my experience.

You should never really verbalize the fact that you want to have sex with her.

She KNOWS this already. You must seduce her like the other guy said.

thanks guys for the responses.
There are 2 things: We talked for a long time and at the end she was really open about her sex experience. she even told me that she'll do blah blah in the sex and won't do blah blah.....Our conversation was like porn movie lol..
So I though that if she is open to talk about this stuff like that,she wants to to do that. Probably, I wasn't wrong.
Well, I knew that bringing home is the best thing to do. However, I live in expensive city and I have roommates.I wouldn't have been comfortable (at least for the first time)if I had brought her home( and I think she wouldn't be either.) becuase of my roommates.
So I decided to bring her to the hotel. So I told her let's go to the hotel. Well, she knows that nothing happens in hotel except fucking each other. Well, that was my problem.Actually, I don't know how I can seduce girls to come to the hotel. I think it's hard.
and by the way, at the end she asked me several time if I am mad at her. I pretended that I am.I think she really cares about my feeling.
and I've not talked to her for 2 days now and I don't know what is the best time to call her and what is the best thing to say.(she knows that second date is equal to get laid.)

If you want to get her to the hotel you shouldn´t make it that obvious.

Go out with her,have fun and than tell her that is a good resturant/cafe etc. (near the hotel) and you would like to go there or there is a good movie tonight and you would liek to watch it with her in the hotel.

It doesn´t realy matter, the point is that you shouldn´t tell it to her that you want to take her to the hotel (infact she knows that you want to fuck her anyway but she feels better if it happened all of a sudden).

I would wait until next week than call her and go out with her.

Hope could help

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I don´t guarantee any success. Every gamestyle is different because every person is different so not all material will work.
I can only give tips due to my experience.