So I have this cute girl in one of my classes. I did everything right: kino, flirting , eye contact, building rapport. I even talk about sex with her. But then out of no were she says my least favorite words. "your my new bestfriend"! What the hell did I do wrong.

Oh I think it was a shit test. I guess I'd have given her a hug and said something like it's nice but she's gotta work harder to be my best friend though

So I think you should carry on with her like nothing happened

But maybe wait for someone more experienced to reply, as I'm still a RAFC

Well today we didn't do much talking becuz I was listen 2 my iPod in class and I asked if she wanted to listen. She kept asking if I had the song I just had sex lol. But then I turned on love faces and asked if she ever heard it. She said no. (love faces is an r&b song by Trey songs). So my earphones kept fallin out my ear becuz we were far apart and she and I got really close and I looked at her right in the eye and gave her a seductive smile and looked at her lips. She smiled back. I wanted to kiss her so bad but we were in the middle of art. Also she sat a few seats down from me in the talent show and was texting me and smiling at me. It seems like she has me in the middle of the friend zone and the boyfriend zone so I need 2 act quick. She is goin 2 chicago all break and is leaving Monday. were should we go to hangout and please give me some tips on war I should do. I think I might need so more kino.

-warkid

Again I stress that I'm not too experienced, but I can tell you what worked in my case.

For staying away from the friend zone - C&F, future projections and making an SOI - these things you can do online or by texts or on the phone. But always push-pull.

But if you think you can meet up tomorrow and kc her then I'd say go somewhere where you could do something you both like, and that gives opportunity to do kino (teaching her how to play an instrument for example - it's always fun ). But later just sit together somewhere where you could be alone, and follow the escalation ladder.