I encountered this a lot.

I don't know if it's part of the culture of this country or what, but grils are kind of "afraid" to date.

And this is not only related to pickup, because I totally understand a girl that is afraid to date a guy she just met, or that she met on internet or whatever.

I spoke with my gals about dating, and they say it is NOT fun, it is annoying, it is not good, they don't like it etc etc.

So my conclusions are:

1) they lie, like with sex. They ALWAYS say they don't like sex (yeah sure, that's why you're dressed like a bitch with -25C outside), so they also say they don't like dating. Then, when they're between girls, they speak EXCLUSIVELY about dating and sex in the most excruciating details...
2) they actually don't like dating... why? I think is a very good experience to connect with an other human being without knowing anything about him... Why they don't like it? Is something evolutionary wired?
3) their experience with dating has been bad, so they gave up and they make the excuse "I don't like it"
4) I'm hanging out with the wrong people...

Dating means Dinner, Movie, Museum or some other lame ass shit to girls now a day.

I always say "Hey let's go clubbing sometime." or "We should party like rock stars together".

Dates are kind of lame... Plus you can get much more social proof in social environments. My idea of a first date now is taking a girl out clubbing with me and my crew and have her hang out while I practice my pickup for an hour or so. After that she usually will initiate the hook up. Chicks are fucking weird.

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I agree with you on that. BUT i disagree that dates are lame. They're only lame if you make them lame. I take girls on dates and I get laid. Sinn (who I learned from) takes girls and dates, and guess what....he gets laid.

When I'm on a date with a girl, I always tell them we're on date. And I use the word date alot. I just don't do lame dates like dinner and a movie. And I make sure we have fun and I make sure things get sexual.

TheFuckingItalian, you have some negative views on dating that neeeeed to change, dude. Don't let a few girls who have told you their negative views on dates affect you. The truth of the matter is the reason girls say things like that is because soooo many guys are lame. But if YOU'RE not lame, then a girl will have no problem going on a date with you, even if you call it a date.

Dates are fun!

Don't get me wrong, I LOVE dating, and I give the girl a heck of a time every single date, and I have great time myself...

I was just trying to analyze what the girls I spoke with think about dating and stuff... They usually say dating is lame!

Yea it's irrelevant tho. As long as dating with you is fun that's all that matters. If dating with other guys is lame, who cares, it's just makes you look better by comparison. Not something worth thinking about.

yea, that's the shit right there. I just don't like the word "dating". These days "we're dating" is synonymous with "we're monogamous". I'm just talking semantics and I 100% agree with you.

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Share some date ideas - we all can use good ones!

Carnivore Preservation... fun

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