hey i met this girl one night in a club HB7 but a great personality..... we talked got along great... when we were walking around the club she starting holding my hand .. hugging me ALOT of IOI's... i really got into her comfort zone. anyways


2nd day she texts first.. we talk for abit just about what we did today etc..

3rd day she calls me? asking if i wanted to hang out this saturday??
I told her ill have to check my schedule and get back to her (I actually have my sisters boyfriends birthday on)


Anyways im quite confused in this whole situation... she has done everything i was meant to do .. text her first, call her first.. its been the other way around..

So guys can anyone help me in how i should be treating this chick.
How should i be reacting to this kind of attention?

She's trying to win You over and yet You complain?
Dude, many of guys want to make girls chase them and You just have it in this situation. Don't question it. That's my advice. But don't turn into a wuss either .

oh ok gooood!

Well whenever i want to keep in contact with her .. should stop texting her ?? and start calling her?

I say, just don't call/text her TOO MUCH 'cause You'll come off as needy and it might kill attraction a bit and make her stop trying as she is now.

Good rule for seeing a new girl is to NOT see her more than twice a week.

ok the night we met she was with a friend... i palmed her friend off to my mate..

anyways mid week she texts me saying if she wanted to go local pub.. i say yeah sounds good this and that..

she texts me earlier today saying "Hey is ur friend from the other night coming?? sarah (which is her friend) wants to know him better.

Anyways my mate cant make it so i say "nah he cant make it" this and that..


"she then texts back saying "Hey we will forget about this weekend and do something next weekend.. it will be better"

So guys how should i react to this?? what does this mean??