2 dates and chilled at a party me and a HB8.
Anyways I was polite and gentlemanly all times, but I used little negs and basically just wanted to get to know her better. I DHV'd her a lot first date and second date.
In second date I threw in some knio and a pinch of negs.
Now I've done a lot more negs and kino, but I seem to have forgotten the odd compliment. But I still remained relatively nice and respective.

Here's where I F - up, we both have exams and I told her I'd call her to go out after I finished, she agreed. This is in 2 weeks though, and she made it clear that she was busy now until then. I thought she'd lose interest, so I said, "you kind of confuse me at times, your personality seems to change" in a joking way then I say, "you know...I've heard things about you".
But I didn't say who despite her begging, so she seemed kind of mad over the phone, so I decided to eject and say my family needed me.

How do I save this? I'm positive she liked me before this phonecall.
Do I try being nicer? She commented that I've changed since I first met her, which is a huge bomb for me

Such a dumb, common problem. Do you even know what negs are for? They aren't for constantly beating up a girl, they're to temporarily keep a girl off balance so she won't treat you like she's a superior bitch that's out of your league. Has this girl ever copped that attitude with you, like she's too good for you? Doesn't sound like it.

On the plus side, it doesn't sound like you really know how to neg, so probably no damage done. You've gone on two dates with her, how long are you going to use PICK UP? Why don't you do something nice for her, drop by with energy drinks while she's studying, make out a little and then bail out. That will keep you on her mind for a few days. I doubt you've fucked anything up, but young girls are really sensitive to rumors about them, so if there aren't any, you better come clean that it was a stupid joke.

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31 and still figuring it out.

Thanks
I've been misled then I guess.
So you only use negs if she's being a bit too bitchy?
Okay got it, so since she's relatively nice to me, I should be nice back?
Damnnn.....I must be really lucky she's even talking to me.
Uh I've heard about being alpha male and not helping her with petty problems, like when she asks for academic help or small favors I should do the odd one, but not make it seem like I worship her right?

Bleh any good articles? :$

I saw Accoring To Jim the other day. He's been married to the same women now for 15 years or something like that.

But he has a marrige theory, one that you could use also.

Its called the marrige-bank.

When she puts in a effort to do something for you, YOU award her. This can be done in so many ways, give her a compliment or something like that, a kiss or whatever.

And yea, stop negging her if she doesnt do anything wrong, this will only make her think"What a prick" instead of building attraction.

In my opinion though, dont tell her it was a stupid joke. Just say something nice that you heard about her. Perhaps somethitng like "Oh, just heard that you had an increadiable laugh, lets go do something fun, and I can rate you". Whatever.. You know where im headed.

Cheers mayn

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