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Just learned it is VERY important to game multiple girls simultaneously.It is not enough to simply act confident you need to live it. Women can instinctively tell the difference.
Eventually you'll slip and show your afc personality just like I have MANY times. You may text or call too much, set up another date too quick, be a compliant listener in conversations (putting you in Dr. Phil zone), let her think she's your only option or the best you can do. There are infinite amount of ways your AFC self will manifest.
Avoid this by picking up and dating other women. All of these mistakes are born from being desperate. You will no longer be desperate when you have many options and the root of the problem will be fixed. You'll become your best self
Your best self will become the dominant version of you. And becoming the best you is not limited to getting women. Actively become the ideal man YOU want to be and she'll see that and fall in love with it.
This is the shortened version of my previous post I highly encourage you read it
I went on ONE date with this girl. She was gorgeous. I thought she was absolutely God's gift to humanity. I went AFC. I was too available and compliant. She could sense that I was too happy to be around her, that she was the best I could do. Eventually she lost all interest and treated me like shit. But when I started doing my pua thing she saw me with other more beautiful women. I realized that my disparity made me put her on a pedestal. I was having too much fun with others to think twice about her.. I had literally forgotten about her, she saw and felt that I could do better and moved on. Recently she facebook'ed me. It's not a serious ioi. But she does want my attention. But f her, she passed up the best guy she'll never have. And there are SO many girls that are better than her. I've made this mistake man times it was a sticking point and now I'm correcting it
So many problems are born out of being desperate the only way to stop this is by humbling your self realizing that we are desperate and want to fix our problems, then going out and picking up and dating tons of women.
BTW this is what the community is about. A bunch of guys that have been routinely pushed to the sides before helping each other take center stage.
good point.
But sooner or later we will want to focus on one girl. Its a matter of making our core strong enough to handle her hotness without being afc.
CHAT
