i am soppose to move like in 6 months from this area and this girl tells me shes afriad to love me... we hooked up once like kisses and stuff and she tells me she wants to fuck but wants to shower first, but i was bringing her to her base (in the army) so she didnt have a chance to shower.. she tells me to come the weekend.. she lives like an 40 min from me nothing crazy.. anyways we plan to go snowboarding & stuff. and now a day before she tells me she doesnt want to love me bcause she doesnt want to get hurt.. she says she never felt this way towards anyone... i need to tell her something or somehow convince her to let me come anyways... shes just afriad to get hurt.. i need advice!!!!!!

Let me see if I understand this correctly. She told you not to come visit her because she doesn't want to get hurt? I want to make sure I have the story straight before I respond.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

she loves me, she tells me maybe i shouldn't come over because she afriad to love me, and since im leaving in 4 months approx she says she doesnt want to get hurt.. ie: fall in love for next 4 months then leave after that

how do i convince her to let me come over...